09-6-2009 - Massive screaming match with SIL

My mood while writing this blog: SO PISSED OFF

Oh my god, some people are just complete wankers!!!!

I had a massive row with my SIL last night, all because she is a two faced cow who has no respect for anyone or any thing.

Because I work for T-Mobile I get some really good deals. I got an internet modem which I ended up not using. Mark had also just built a laptop and sold it to his sister. We agreed she could use the modem and pay me each month for it. Everything was fine until the laptop broke. Mark looked at it and said he could not fix it, and he gave all his sisters money back. He asked for the modem back as well because she was obviously not using it.

For about 3 weeks she kept saying "Yeah I will get it, I know where it is." Finally Mark got annoyed and waited at Marias (sil) front door until she went and got it. She came back saying it was not where she thought it was. Mark was a bit pissed off and said that because she had still had it she should pay for the month. She was so mad at him for suggesting it. Mark had to explain that the contract was in MY name, I was STILL paying it, and SHE had the modem, and why should I pay for something I do not have.

This was a few months ago and her twat of a boyfriend was saying "Maria you never take it out the bag though, you must have given it back Maria, you have looked, maybe Mark is lieing" WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?! So after lots of arguing it was agreed we would both pay half the bill until the contract ends.

It was never really about the money more the principle. We had lent her something in good faith and she was too damn careless. Now I have a contract for a device I don't even have. Everything was going ok with the paying half, until Maria said she was struggling.

Maria was given hundreds of boxes of nappies, so I suggested that instead of money, why not give us 2 boxes a month. It would help me out and Maria would not have to find the money each month. She said no so Mark said ok then forget that. Meaning the nappy idea. Maria thought he meant all the money full stop.

Anyway on Sunday Mark mentioned to his mum that he had not got the money yet this month, I told Mark to give it a rest because I could it causing another argument. Yesterday when Mark took us to his mum he mentioned it again and his mum was just said "Bloody hell Mark it's £20, just forget about it, you know what Maria is like" So I stuck up for Mark and told her it was not about the money, it's the fact of her disregard for other peoples property. I also said "If I borrowed something from someone and lost or broke it, I wouldn't need to be asked to replace it. If I borrow something it's my responsibility to look after it and make sure it is returned in the same state it was leant to me" To which she agreed and said I was right.

Last night Mark and I were in bed watching a film when Maria called him. I heard my name get mentioned so I muted the TV and I heard her say "This is between me and you Mark, NOT Emma, I don't know why she is getting invovled it has NOTHING to do with her!" Sorry but it's MY contract and I am the one paying for it! The second thing I heard her say infuriated me "How dare she slag me off to my mum, at the end of the day you tell her from me, if she has anything to say then she should say it to me. Not go between my mum. Who does she think she is talking about me behind my back!" FUCKING CHEEKY BITCH. I for one didn't even mention her name, and I have never slagged her off, infact I am usually arguing with Mark STICKING UP FOR HER!

I ended up on the phone having a right go at her. She just sat there bitching off about me, when I didn't do anything wrong. I didn't even slag her off, or say anything bad about her. I reminded her of the fact that she ALWAYS gets involved in other peoples business, she always talks about people behind their back, slags EVERYONE off. She also slagged me off to her nan because I didn't say thank you to her nan for doing some washing for me when my machine packed up. Even though I had just bought a lovely pot plant to take round the following day, she said "Yeah my nan was totally devastated you didn't say thank, and she is MY nan, not yours, nothing to do with you, she is MY family, My nan" That really hurt because I have always thought of Marks family as my family as we are all generally close. Mark saw I was upset so snatched the phone and went mad at her, calling her every name under the sun.

The next thing Marks mum is on the phone saying Maria is sobbing her heart out, she is so upset saying she hates me and Mark. Mark explained what happened, then I got on the phone. I didn't do anything wrong at all and the excuse was well Maria is having a tough time....Tough time, MY ARSE! It's her own fucking fault, she is the one who is a benefit cheat, claiming for her three kids, while her wanker boyfriend lives there and works full time. Everyone told her she would get caught. Me and Mark working bloody hard for everything, and she moans and says things like my landlord is putting the rent up, she only pays £70 month...I pay £825!!! I don't moan about it....(well I do, but I deal with it)

I am so mad, all I ever do is try to help her out. I used to always offer to help picking the kids up from school but ohhh no I wasn't good enough, then all of a sudden, the wanker that is jim her boyfriends wants to take her out one day, so my services are good enough for that. I picked her kids up, fed them, looked after them. I have bent over backwards for her. She does not drive, so when we are all at MIL I will always offer Mark to drive her and the kids home, he doesn't always like it, but I saw it as, he is her brother so he should help....Well not any more.

She is such a spiteful, disrespectful, rude, cow who only cares about herself. She uses and abuses people, lies ALL the time. Now I know that by the end of the day mine and Marks name will me mud. It will be aww poor Maria this and poor Maria that and Mark and Emma are pathetic and They know what she is like. I can bet you that we get a right slagging off because Maria will do her little innocent act and have everyone feeling sorry for her

Sorry for the long blog I just need to vent I am so mad right now. What makes it worse is that Marks mum has got Caiden because I still can't pick him up and I am spending the day with Cameron. I know Maria will be there, slagging me off, while holding Caiden and joking about talking to him saying things like "Your mummy is a bitch" I have heard her do it before to someone else. Makes me sick to think about, but there is nothing I can do about it

ARGH!!!!!