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GodsGift09
Age: 25
Country: US
Province/region: Florida
City: Crawfordville
Partner: Hubby
Children: Yes, 1
Pregnant: No
Due date: 09 0 ,0000
Occupation: SAHM
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30-4-2009 - Trying to keep my cool OkMy mood while writing this blog:
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Okay first of all I am a plus-size girl (200+; 5'8) and I lost 15 lbs during the first few weeks of my first trimester. Now at 19 weeks, I may have gained about 8+ lbs of what I lost. I come into work yesterday and a co-worker (old lady) comments that I've gotten fat. Another co-worker (#2) over hears her and says "Uh, I want to see your fat belly." So, I'm like, "I'm not fat, I'm pregnant." Today, yet another co-worker (#3) who is best friends with #2 walks into my office rubs my stomach and says "Uh, your stomach is bigger than it was yesterday!" They said that I had gotten really skinny during my first trimester (are you serious) and now I'm fat. I was so shocked that people could be so rude and insensitive.

I'm still wearing my pre-pregnancy clothes due to the fact that I lost in my 1st trimester and I'm in the process of gaining my weight back in my stomach.

Flesh wanted to tell them off but I stayed cool. I told my husband and he said that if he caught "old lady" in the parking lot he's going to tell her that he better never hear that she's calling his wife fat..lol. He's VERY protective of me.

The funny thing is old lady and co-worker #2 stomachs are bigger than mines!




1 Comments on Trying to keep my cool


grayleigh - Friday, 1 May
oh honey, people are gonna call you fat until you have the baby. they don't understand that it sounds just as mean as it did before you were preggo. they called me fat mama and i really wasn't the first time. my hubby even tell me to grease up cuz the stretch marks are coming! i didn't get one the first time. people just have no idea what it is like from day to day just carrying the baby and trying to be so happy let alone do they ever think that we do actually get worried just a little about our bodies and overall health. we try no to think of ourselves and just submit to the process, but no one wants to be too big and all scarred up. HUGS FROM ME!!! don't be mad at them though cuz they really do mean well. people that know you're preggo will always comment about one thing or another.
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