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08-4-2009 - Sore

My mood while writing this blog: DONE

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So today I had an apt that i was unable to miss due to rescheduling and difficulty getting another one before little on is born. I knew in the morning my guy was going to have to get off work ealry to take me since it was in the afternoon rather then the mornings like usual( which is so much easier for him to be there). Well two hours before he calls to let me know he is just to busy at work and cannot leave his desk. Mind you, his boss had a teeth cleaning apt today and made it to the apt without a care in the world whether they were swamped or not. I understand its only 4 people in his department and if his boss is not there no one else can run his department other then him. But its an apt regarding our child his boss needs to learn he can sometimes reschedule what he has going on rather then making my sons dad miss ours. Well I was without any cash not a penny to my name and no family near was able to take me because i lost my license so i cant drive my car that just sits outside. Well because i am unable to reschedule i had to get my 4 yr old in the stroller and WALK. I was so angry i cried the entire TWO HOURS it took me to get there. I finally get there and it went quickly. I call him to make sure he can leave so i didnt have to walk back and sure thing he cant leave. By this time I'm done with him, we have a child together and thats it. I cant stand to be around him and once Caiden is born we will go our seperate ways. If his son is not a priority now he will never be. So again legs still sore from the walk there i get my son in his stroller and start my walk home. Two hours later i finally make it. My legs hurt so damn bad i cant get off the couch from the time i fell on it. First thing i had to make sure caiden was ok so i woke little guy up and he was kicking away so i knew he was ok. My 4 yr old saw it as just another walk, good thing i hid my tears behind my glasses. Its such a tragedy i thought my guy was the one i would marry and after 4 yrs of being together that he would be an amazing father to his son like he is to mine. I guess we'll battle things out in court and he will see his son every other weekend and pay child support. But come one 4 hours of walking is not what i needed today. And i know he wont feel bad and thats fine just shows he will never be anything more then a 29 yr old part time daddy. Sorry ladies just had to vent

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9 Comments on Sore


paola - Thursday, 9 Apr
I understand you been really upset, but I honestly don;t think leaving him is an asnwer, he was not with onother girl, he was working, and sometimes we just cannot scape from work that easy, I know you're mad but I'm sure he will do everything to make you happy.
and think about he is really lucky to have a job, lots of people these days don;t.
relax, you're almost done.

ajohnson904 - Thursday, 9 Apr
Wow. I would be super pissed. You must be really sore. I sure hope you never have to do that again!

cwiller - Thursday, 9 Apr
I am sorry you had to go through all that! I walk for an hour everyday sometimes 2 and I'm 40weeks pregnant. I know how sore I am after that so I couldn't imagine walking 4hrs. Your a very strong woman, and the two of you will get through this. I know you are really pissed at him which you have a right to be. I don't know the 2 of you personally but don't think you should just pick up and leave him over it. Like Dina says be pissed off at him for a day or two,, he will come around and baby you and realize that no matter what it wasn't right. For now pamper yourself and get some rest! Goodluck with everything!

modelimited - Thursday, 9 Apr
You are a very strong woman! I think I would have just given up and stayed home. I'm sorry that you're going through this right now. You don't need it! This pregnancy is enough! Hope you're doing better now. Keep us posted!

hollym - Thursday, 9 Apr
hope your ok dont jump into any desision yet about leaving him keep us posted hun big hugs to you

twins!! - Wednesday, 8 Apr
oh girl I'm sorry u went through that . U r such a strong woman

mommylove01 - Wednesday, 8 Apr
wow! I'm sorry you need to pamper yourself. hope you feel better.

dinahmite425 - Wednesday, 8 Apr
sorry you walked so far.. i totally think you should not leave him over this, but just be pissed off at him and do nothing for him for a day or to.. like no dinner for him etc...

momof3krzyboys - Wednesday, 8 Apr
I'm so sorry hun, you sound like you need a hug :( That's alot of walking at this stage, I'm surpirsed you made it, you should get some sleep then spoil yourself tomorrow :) You deserve it!