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14-1-2010 - 3 KIDS A BAD IDEA?? HELP!!!

My mood while writing this blog: CONFUSED / EXCITED

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Hello ladies!!! Its been forever it feels like.... Well My youngest taylor is now 6 months old and were trying hard to decide if were gonna try for baby number 3 or get fixed for good and call it quits.. I cant believe that I am thinking about it already but lets face it , I am gonna be 34 this year and I dont want to put ot off too long because I am getting old... Well I feel like it anyways... My husband agrees that we should either do it or call itr quits... If we do were gonna start to try again in July and that way I am not huge in the summer here in sunny florida... The olny thing is, is thats it sooo hard to deside... Why? Most of my friend said "IM DONE" and it was easy and for me I feel like there is this little hole in my heart for another one.. Or just because we have two girls and would love a boy doesnt mean were gonna have one... Wish you could pick the sex.. wouldnt that be great... I know if we would have had a boy we would be done but God blessed me with another girl.. But there 5 years apart so My oldest prob. needed a little sis... Does any of you have 3? Is it crazy that I want another one in todays world? Does anyone regret having 3 kids? Please help me ladies... Oh have I missed you guys.. But I am a stay at home mom now so I have time to get on and chat with you all... Please let me know what you think about 3?? Is it a bad idea?? Jen

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5 Comments on 3 KIDS A BAD IDEA?? HELP!!!


Julianna - Wednesday, 3 Feb
You aren't crazy at all. I always knew I wanted 3 kisd. When I was married to my ex husband, I gave in & let him have a vasectomy after 2 children. I SO longed for that 3rd child. Lo & Behold, we ended up divorcing and I found the love of my life, Dan, and we now have a son together as well. It was 12-1/2 years between children and I was nearly 37 when I had him, but I wouldn't change it for anything! I feel complete now that I have my 3 sons!

normalee - Friday, 22 Jan
your not crazy. good luck and let me kow what happens i now have 2 boyus and 2 girls and i am done for sure. so godd luck and i would go for it even if it turns out to be a girl it's just ment to be right.

4 on the floor - Thursday, 14 Jan
no you're not crazy, i pg with #3. and even tho she wasnt planned for when she was concieved she was on the play bill for the future. We wanted 3 from the beginning, her timing wasnt what we wanted, but thats okay. if you can afford it i say go for it! and if you are interested go to ingender.com it talks about gender swaying, both at home methods and high tech. i hope that helps!

LittleFeet - Thursday, 14 Jan
You're definitely not crazy. Do what makes you happy. My youngest hasn't reached three months yet, and we've already decided we're going to have at least one more. If you already feel that longing now, and you don't do it, imagine how you'll feel in years to come when you see other people with their babies... But just make sure you make the right decision for you guys. Good Luck xx

barbieken7981 - Thursday, 14 Jan
Go for it I only have 1 right now but if its going to make you happy then do it!!