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Never did i think i would be causing trouble when i was sending messages to everyone about the bushfires but now ive recieved a message from a fellow aussie that was in my friends telling me that she lives down there and doesnt need to be reminded about it constantly and that i need to have a little heart. Im so upset over all of this that i really regret sending any messages at all it was not my intention to upset anyone that is why i asked a few times if i was offending anyone and i would stop and now its come to that point im getting abuse from an aussie. I cant win and from this point i will not be posting anything to do with the fires i give up.
34 Comments on Now im Heartless!!!!!!
jalak - Tuesday, 17 Feb
Hey dont worry about those people who dont want u to share your emotions.... hope ever thing is fine now
buffyhaving twins - Monday, 16 Feb
Don't worry about the people who are offended or whatever. It is a huge tragedy what is going on in your country and I'm not in the least bit offended by your posts. Chin up!
hoping4baby1 - Friday, 13 Feb
i am sorry that some people are being so mean. but you should know that some of us really appreciated the updates. you can't please everyone, so don't try, and some people aren't happy unless they are complaining about somethings. you can send me update all you want, it's nice to know what's going on, especially from someone who is much closer to it than i am.
innocentangel - Thursday, 12 Feb
How can she even think, to say what she told you. regardless she is going to be reminded if not by you just by the air of when she steps outside, the news and other people talking. Its not going to go away as quick as we all hope which thats what i hate so much. Dont worry about what the negative or "heartless" think.. again im originally from there and im in california now and i do love that you kept me updated..thanks.
ready4mygirl - Thursday, 12 Feb
First of all... you were symothizing these poor people and wanting our prayers that is not heartless honey. Sure it devastating but it sounds like she wanted to act like it never happened. To not even think about these poor people is what sounds heartless to me.
Second of all she is the one that decided to read your blogs. If it was that upsetting to her she should have stopped reading them. Nobody twisted her arm to read them so obviously they didnt upset her that much b/c she kept reading them. So dont even let it upset you about what she said. I enjoyed reading them and it appears alot of other people did as well. Don't even stress it hon. Hope you have a good day :)
~ I luv my boyz ~ - Thursday, 12 Feb
I loved hearing about what is going on over there im sorry that it is going on but some people should just get over them selves!!
stepheni775 - Thursday, 12 Feb
I'm sorrry this happened you were just worried about your country as I would be too I never e4ven knew about what was going on down there until I seen your updates and when I did I would pray for your country. There are so many people animals baby's dead because of this, And you are being a angel by spreading the word don't let no one tell you different! They are just ignorant individuals. Maybe you should blog about it and write on your blog if any one is offended to just block you and tell them how to do and just keep the blogs to a minimum so no one feels like you've gone to far. These are just suggestions. I just want you to know you have a very big heart and you do what you feel is right!
soon2bemamaof4 - Thursday, 12 Feb
Don't worry hun, most of us can tell you've got a very big heart indeed. Don't let anyone tell you different! Take care and try not to worry about it...just look at all the supportive comments you've got! :o)
firsttimer - Thursday, 12 Feb
Goodness me. I loved the koala. If your updates had offended me I'd have turned them off. Simple. Heartless? Now that's harsh. Please try not to let this upset you. Bubba needs mummy to be happy.
Abigails Mommy - Thursday, 12 Feb
Some folks are natural born troublemakers. I'm sorry she's in the middle of it but it's news and you were just keeping us updated. The truth is the truth no matter how horrible it is. People could have chosen NOT to read it. *HUG* I don't think you were heartless.
EricandCalebsMommy - Thursday, 12 Feb
Some people literally just make trouble for the pure sake of it. Are you kidding ~ if you have nothing better to do with your time than complain about informational messages being posted, you have way too much time on your hands. Maybe these people should spend more time with their babies and less time griping about ridiculous things. Don't let it get you down ~ they just need to get over themselves!
jessiegirl - Thursday, 12 Feb
I'm sorry, Maybe people in your country don't realize it but we in America are going through a national trend of putting our heads in the sand. It is much easier this way, If we don't know about things they just go away.As for your fellow Aussie....Let her know that with our loose immigration policies it will be easy to find a new country that feels the same way she does:)
cheybaby - Thursday, 12 Feb
Something similar happened after the Knoxville church shootings here, where a couple of people in our congregation repeatedly posted every bit of information they found about the other congregation until the whole church was ready to scream at them. (And yes, after a year there is STILL backlash going on about it.) It's not about the information per say, but the sheer frequency of posts and flooding of the messages.
No, I didn't report you but I was getting ready to block messages.
FreedomLee - Thursday, 12 Feb
I loved you updates, I would tell my co workers as if I knew what I was talking about. But if ppl are that upset.....gosh!
prettybird - Thursday, 12 Feb
Awwww...that stinks. Many, many, many of us don't live anywhere near there and WANT the updates. Not fair. All that lady had to do was to turn off her updates from you. GEEZE. I watched the footage of the fireman and the koala bear and thought it was beautiful. If it wasn't for you I probably wouldn't have had the chance to witness such a precious event as that. By reading your updates...I believe you got more people praying for everyone going through very hard times. Please reconcider posting your updates.
Hugz, and thank-you.
mrs-vp - Thursday, 12 Feb
Wow isnt this completely absurd?? Stop sending updates because out of the many many people reading them a few didnt want to? I must agree that it is up to each individual what they want to read and if they are offended by anything it is not difficult to block the updates from their own profiles. Dont let it stress you out.... :)
tracy108 - Thursday, 12 Feb
Try not to get too upset by it all. Everyone has a different view, me I am quite shocked that it has escalated to this! Try not to take it to heart and maybe try doing what Tassy said and right a blog instead, at least then the people who want to still read about it can and the others can go read something else!!
xxx
mummy23 - Thursday, 12 Feb
People deal with things differently!!! and i think by posting your updates that you care not the other way round!! dont get to upset about it xx
katie-g - Thursday, 12 Feb
i already told u how i feel Hun and i think you should keep up date people my mother in law sis live out there and i like to know how things are
vicki--mommy of 4 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Don't take it to heart hun. Some people are just stressed out. You're not heartless, far from it. Take care and keep your heart right where it is. Take care hun!
tassy - Wednesday, 11 Feb
your updates on the bush fires are fine... but not necessarily everyone on this website would be interested in reading a such a detailed info about it.. i mean everyone is watching the news and reading the newspapers so its all there in it.. you could write a "Blog" everyday with the update on the fire, rather than writing a message and doing a "Send to all" this way whoever wants to read the updates on the fire, can read your blog and those who are not interested they can just ignore your Blog..!!!
lindyloo - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Keep the updates coming people can choose not to receive then hun!!
nikkiekck - Wednesday, 11 Feb
i think she just dont want to be reminded what the real world is going through.im sorry for her being the one that is heartless. just because she feels that way dont mean others do not care. you are a caring soul and dont forget that! love ya Jude xoxo
mom of 7 and 1 on the way - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Don't feel bad about what you were posting I looked forward to every update. I knew nothing about it until you told me. She was probably just upset by the happenings there and didn't feel up to hearing anymore about it but you had no intentions of upsetting anyone. You have a heart of gold to be keeping up with that information and letting everyone else know what was happening. Keep your chin up and don't let that one person upset you.
teresa08 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You are far from heartless, just the opposite. You were just keeping everyone informed about something that was close to you and upsetting. That is why you have friends, so you can share the good and the bad. Don't be so hard on yourself. You did nothing wrong. If someone is bothered by it they didn't have to read it. What are we in grade school and have to tattle rather then communicate with each other.
sarahann - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Jude, it is hard on everyone. I know you have the best intentions, and you are obviously a very caring person. I can't see anyone else going to such great effort to make everyone aware of what's going on. You are doing a great job. I know some people have been affected by the fires and it upsets them, but there's no need for anyone to be rude about it. The suggestion about the blog is a great idea, that way no one can complain. Keep being a wonderful, caring person. I hope you are feeling well. Take care x
thebigtomato - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You obviously were posting about it out of concern, which is exactly the OPPOSITE of being heartless! Don't worry, most people realize the kindness of your intentions. And if people don't want to read them, they have every right to not read them. But I think you're probably doing the best thing by just not updating about it any longer. Too many people are overly sensitive. I guess if we want updates we can watch the news. Thank you for keeping us in the loop til now! :)
preggiebelly - Wednesday, 11 Feb
oh good grief! What is wrong with people.
Don't worry about others.... you post what means something to you and if someone else doesn't have anything nice or positive to say about it.... that's their craziness.
Glad you've been concerned about other people.... that's a wonderful thing.
We all know that you've only posted updates out of care and concern and that's commendable. :)
momto4 littleangelsnlovinit - Wednesday, 11 Feb
i don't think you're being heartless and you never post any thing that was negative,so again thanks for the updates and you can post them to me private.
number5forme - Wednesday, 11 Feb
I totally agree with everything that MisSky82 said (and my sympathies to you also). Please dont take it personally Jude. The blogs with the fire heading is a FANTASTIC IDEA!!!! Keeps EVERYONE happy! Yes?
MisSky82 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Jude - i really dont think she meant that you were being totally hearthless, just that she is personally affected and worried sick and really just needs somewhere to go right now to be reminded of the joy in the world. I have lost a very dear friend in the fires and inbetween sobbing uncontrollably and m/s sickness i do come on here to be reminded that its ok to feel happy about my little peanut. Its hard when I see your updates about the figures knowing my friend is one of them, I have my partner delete them from my page before i go on since it just sets me off again, ive even had to change my homepage from the news since i just cant bare it anymore. I know your intentions are nothing but sincere, and maybe I can offer a solution. rather than sending messages - how about writing a blog ( like the one i am responding to) with the subject line "Vic fires update" that way those of your friends that want an update can click through to it, and those that dont, dont see anymore other than the subject line. I can see from your other friends comment that they really appreciate your updates, so dont stop, but i think the blog way is the way to go.
anniemarie - Wednesday, 11 Feb
oh don't feel bad!!! i'm in the U.S. and rarely watch the news, but all your posts kept me up to date! ppl may have complained but it really isn't a big deal that you share what's going on in YOUR life. that's what this site is for, sharing what's going on in our lives with our children. i know i have posted about issues that aren't directly related with my son, but this site is also for support as well! you're not being insensitive by keeping other posted with what's going on in the world. please don't take it to heart what others have said....just let it go!!! hope that helps, keep smiling!!!
skatrose - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You know, I guess everyone will have their opinion...but I think it was great for you to post messages updating us all about the fires. Over here in the US we don't hear as much about it, so it was nice to see you updating everyone...and I know that it is something you truly cared about in your heart. It was nice to know what was going on with the fires. I guess it just goes to show that we will probably always offend someone no matter what we say, and how much we try to censor ourselves. Don't worry about it. People will live and get over it. Sheesh. ON the other hand...hope you are feeling well and your pregnancy is going along great. Congrats again!!!
iowajamie80 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Well you can still send them to me privately!! I am wanting to know what is going on besides here!! And that is terrible that person is like that!!! ARRRRRR!!!
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Never did i think i would be causing trouble when i was sending messages to everyone about the bushfires but now ive recieved a message from a fellow aussie that was in my friends telling me that she lives down there and doesnt need to be reminded about it constantly and that i need to have a little heart. Im so upset over all of this that i really regret sending any messages at all it was not my intention to upset anyone that is why i asked a few times if i was offending anyone and i would stop and now its come to that point im getting abuse from an aussie. I cant win and from this point i will not be posting anything to do with the fires i give up.
34 Comments on Now im Heartless!!!!!!
jalak - Tuesday, 17 Feb
Hey dont worry about those people who dont want u to share your emotions.... hope ever thing is fine now
buffyhaving twins - Monday, 16 Feb
Don't worry about the people who are offended or whatever. It is a huge tragedy what is going on in your country and I'm not in the least bit offended by your posts. Chin up!
hoping4baby1 - Friday, 13 Feb
i am sorry that some people are being so mean. but you should know that some of us really appreciated the updates. you can't please everyone, so don't try, and some people aren't happy unless they are complaining about somethings. you can send me update all you want, it's nice to know what's going on, especially from someone who is much closer to it than i am.
innocentangel - Thursday, 12 Feb
How can she even think, to say what she told you. regardless she is going to be reminded if not by you just by the air of when she steps outside, the news and other people talking. Its not going to go away as quick as we all hope which thats what i hate so much. Dont worry about what the negative or "heartless" think.. again im originally from there and im in california now and i do love that you kept me updated..thanks.
ready4mygirl - Thursday, 12 Feb
First of all... you were symothizing these poor people and wanting our prayers that is not heartless honey. Sure it devastating but it sounds like she wanted to act like it never happened. To not even think about these poor people is what sounds heartless to me.
Second of all she is the one that decided to read your blogs. If it was that upsetting to her she should have stopped reading them. Nobody twisted her arm to read them so obviously they didnt upset her that much b/c she kept reading them. So dont even let it upset you about what she said. I enjoyed reading them and it appears alot of other people did as well. Don't even stress it hon. Hope you have a good day :)
~ I luv my boyz ~ - Thursday, 12 Feb
I loved hearing about what is going on over there im sorry that it is going on but some people should just get over them selves!!
stepheni775 - Thursday, 12 Feb
I'm sorrry this happened you were just worried about your country as I would be too I never e4ven knew about what was going on down there until I seen your updates and when I did I would pray for your country. There are so many people animals baby's dead because of this, And you are being a angel by spreading the word don't let no one tell you different! They are just ignorant individuals. Maybe you should blog about it and write on your blog if any one is offended to just block you and tell them how to do and just keep the blogs to a minimum so no one feels like you've gone to far. These are just suggestions. I just want you to know you have a very big heart and you do what you feel is right!
soon2bemamaof4 - Thursday, 12 Feb
Don't worry hun, most of us can tell you've got a very big heart indeed. Don't let anyone tell you different! Take care and try not to worry about it...just look at all the supportive comments you've got! :o)
firsttimer - Thursday, 12 Feb
Goodness me. I loved the koala. If your updates had offended me I'd have turned them off. Simple. Heartless? Now that's harsh. Please try not to let this upset you. Bubba needs mummy to be happy.
Abigails Mommy - Thursday, 12 Feb
Some folks are natural born troublemakers. I'm sorry she's in the middle of it but it's news and you were just keeping us updated. The truth is the truth no matter how horrible it is. People could have chosen NOT to read it. *HUG* I don't think you were heartless.
EricandCalebsMommy - Thursday, 12 Feb
Some people literally just make trouble for the pure sake of it. Are you kidding ~ if you have nothing better to do with your time than complain about informational messages being posted, you have way too much time on your hands. Maybe these people should spend more time with their babies and less time griping about ridiculous things. Don't let it get you down ~ they just need to get over themselves!
jessiegirl - Thursday, 12 Feb
I'm sorry, Maybe people in your country don't realize it but we in America are going through a national trend of putting our heads in the sand. It is much easier this way, If we don't know about things they just go away.As for your fellow Aussie....Let her know that with our loose immigration policies it will be easy to find a new country that feels the same way she does:)
cheybaby - Thursday, 12 Feb
Something similar happened after the Knoxville church shootings here, where a couple of people in our congregation repeatedly posted every bit of information they found about the other congregation until the whole church was ready to scream at them. (And yes, after a year there is STILL backlash going on about it.) It's not about the information per say, but the sheer frequency of posts and flooding of the messages.
No, I didn't report you but I was getting ready to block messages.
FreedomLee - Thursday, 12 Feb
I loved you updates, I would tell my co workers as if I knew what I was talking about. But if ppl are that upset.....gosh!
prettybird - Thursday, 12 Feb
Awwww...that stinks. Many, many, many of us don't live anywhere near there and WANT the updates. Not fair. All that lady had to do was to turn off her updates from you. GEEZE. I watched the footage of the fireman and the koala bear and thought it was beautiful. If it wasn't for you I probably wouldn't have had the chance to witness such a precious event as that. By reading your updates...I believe you got more people praying for everyone going through very hard times. Please reconcider posting your updates.
Hugz, and thank-you.
mrs-vp - Thursday, 12 Feb
Wow isnt this completely absurd?? Stop sending updates because out of the many many people reading them a few didnt want to? I must agree that it is up to each individual what they want to read and if they are offended by anything it is not difficult to block the updates from their own profiles. Dont let it stress you out.... :)
tracy108 - Thursday, 12 Feb
Try not to get too upset by it all. Everyone has a different view, me I am quite shocked that it has escalated to this! Try not to take it to heart and maybe try doing what Tassy said and right a blog instead, at least then the people who want to still read about it can and the others can go read something else!!
xxx
mummy23 - Thursday, 12 Feb
People deal with things differently!!! and i think by posting your updates that you care not the other way round!! dont get to upset about it xx
katie-g - Thursday, 12 Feb
i already told u how i feel Hun and i think you should keep up date people my mother in law sis live out there and i like to know how things are
vicki--mommy of 4 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Don't take it to heart hun. Some people are just stressed out. You're not heartless, far from it. Take care and keep your heart right where it is. Take care hun!
tassy - Wednesday, 11 Feb
your updates on the bush fires are fine... but not necessarily everyone on this website would be interested in reading a such a detailed info about it.. i mean everyone is watching the news and reading the newspapers so its all there in it.. you could write a "Blog" everyday with the update on the fire, rather than writing a message and doing a "Send to all" this way whoever wants to read the updates on the fire, can read your blog and those who are not interested they can just ignore your Blog..!!!
lindyloo - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Keep the updates coming people can choose not to receive then hun!!
nikkiekck - Wednesday, 11 Feb
i think she just dont want to be reminded what the real world is going through.im sorry for her being the one that is heartless. just because she feels that way dont mean others do not care. you are a caring soul and dont forget that! love ya Jude xoxo
mom of 7 and 1 on the way - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Don't feel bad about what you were posting I looked forward to every update. I knew nothing about it until you told me. She was probably just upset by the happenings there and didn't feel up to hearing anymore about it but you had no intentions of upsetting anyone. You have a heart of gold to be keeping up with that information and letting everyone else know what was happening. Keep your chin up and don't let that one person upset you.
teresa08 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You are far from heartless, just the opposite. You were just keeping everyone informed about something that was close to you and upsetting. That is why you have friends, so you can share the good and the bad. Don't be so hard on yourself. You did nothing wrong. If someone is bothered by it they didn't have to read it. What are we in grade school and have to tattle rather then communicate with each other.
sarahann - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Jude, it is hard on everyone. I know you have the best intentions, and you are obviously a very caring person. I can't see anyone else going to such great effort to make everyone aware of what's going on. You are doing a great job. I know some people have been affected by the fires and it upsets them, but there's no need for anyone to be rude about it. The suggestion about the blog is a great idea, that way no one can complain. Keep being a wonderful, caring person. I hope you are feeling well. Take care x
thebigtomato - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You obviously were posting about it out of concern, which is exactly the OPPOSITE of being heartless! Don't worry, most people realize the kindness of your intentions. And if people don't want to read them, they have every right to not read them. But I think you're probably doing the best thing by just not updating about it any longer. Too many people are overly sensitive. I guess if we want updates we can watch the news. Thank you for keeping us in the loop til now! :)
preggiebelly - Wednesday, 11 Feb
oh good grief! What is wrong with people.
Don't worry about others.... you post what means something to you and if someone else doesn't have anything nice or positive to say about it.... that's their craziness.
Glad you've been concerned about other people.... that's a wonderful thing.
We all know that you've only posted updates out of care and concern and that's commendable. :)
momto4 littleangelsnlovinit - Wednesday, 11 Feb
i don't think you're being heartless and you never post any thing that was negative,so again thanks for the updates and you can post them to me private.
number5forme - Wednesday, 11 Feb
I totally agree with everything that MisSky82 said (and my sympathies to you also). Please dont take it personally Jude. The blogs with the fire heading is a FANTASTIC IDEA!!!! Keeps EVERYONE happy! Yes?
MisSky82 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Jude - i really dont think she meant that you were being totally hearthless, just that she is personally affected and worried sick and really just needs somewhere to go right now to be reminded of the joy in the world. I have lost a very dear friend in the fires and inbetween sobbing uncontrollably and m/s sickness i do come on here to be reminded that its ok to feel happy about my little peanut. Its hard when I see your updates about the figures knowing my friend is one of them, I have my partner delete them from my page before i go on since it just sets me off again, ive even had to change my homepage from the news since i just cant bare it anymore. I know your intentions are nothing but sincere, and maybe I can offer a solution. rather than sending messages - how about writing a blog ( like the one i am responding to) with the subject line "Vic fires update" that way those of your friends that want an update can click through to it, and those that dont, dont see anymore other than the subject line. I can see from your other friends comment that they really appreciate your updates, so dont stop, but i think the blog way is the way to go.
anniemarie - Wednesday, 11 Feb
oh don't feel bad!!! i'm in the U.S. and rarely watch the news, but all your posts kept me up to date! ppl may have complained but it really isn't a big deal that you share what's going on in YOUR life. that's what this site is for, sharing what's going on in our lives with our children. i know i have posted about issues that aren't directly related with my son, but this site is also for support as well! you're not being insensitive by keeping other posted with what's going on in the world. please don't take it to heart what others have said....just let it go!!! hope that helps, keep smiling!!!
skatrose - Wednesday, 11 Feb
You know, I guess everyone will have their opinion...but I think it was great for you to post messages updating us all about the fires. Over here in the US we don't hear as much about it, so it was nice to see you updating everyone...and I know that it is something you truly cared about in your heart. It was nice to know what was going on with the fires. I guess it just goes to show that we will probably always offend someone no matter what we say, and how much we try to censor ourselves. Don't worry about it. People will live and get over it. Sheesh. ON the other hand...hope you are feeling well and your pregnancy is going along great. Congrats again!!!
iowajamie80 - Wednesday, 11 Feb
Well you can still send them to me privately!! I am wanting to know what is going on besides here!! And that is terrible that person is like that!!! ARRRRRR!!!
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