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	Age: 25 Country: USA Province/region: City: Southern GA Partner: The Love of my Life...JAMAAL Children: Yes, 5 Pregnant: Trying to conceive Occupation: US Air Force Mommy/Airman/Fiance
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19-6-2009 - Father\'s Day 2009

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Hey Ladies

I know I haven't updated on my life in a while but I think I should...becuz I am not sure how I feel. Well first off my husband and I have decided to divorce for lots of reasons...so he has left going back home to New Orleans with his father...well Father's Day is Sunday and AJ and Jailyn have noone to Happy Father's Day too granted phone calls but its still not the same. This is their 1st Father's Day without him so I guess it will be a test for them, I am unsure if/when he will see them again it sucks but thats life. I have found a great man and no i'm not asking him to step up and fill that role becuz they have a daddy and thats a huge responsiblilty! I just needed to vent becuz I am pissed off that thru all that I've been thru with my soon to be ex-husband he can leave his kids so easily granted be mad at me i don't care...I made this decision for myself and for them...we both deserve better but he still gonna be their daddy no matter what! This will be a interesting weekend I'm sure!! Thanks ladies for listening to me...I know ur advice will be given with love!

7 Comments on Father\'s Day 2009

jadestar - Monday, 22 Jun
Father's day. I had some redwine, pretended like it was any other day. I lost my father 5 yrs ago and Jade's father pretends she don't exist. He has never hugged her, he never played with her hair, in fact he doesn't even know her middle name. He works 10 min away from my apartment, he lives 20min away from my apartment and i'm sure he had a ball with his great dad on Father's day. The fact that his father doesn't know that his son is a father himself, what a great injustice his doing to my child? Anyway, girl, i pray that your soon-to-be ex husband will be the best daddy he can be no matter what. Love to all.

4timesthelove - Saturday, 20 Jun
Hugs mamas. Whatever you decided to do this wweekend remember two things. Your kids are resilient and intuitive. If you make a big deal they will make a big deal, if you sulk they will sulk. Place a father's day phone call if you feel like it and keep pressing on.

5 miracles and an angel - Friday, 19 Jun
AS FAR AS THE FATHERLESS FATHER DAYS, MY KIDS ARE SO USED TO IT. THIS IS MY YOUNGEST SON'S FIRST FATHER'S DAY. HE'S NEVER SEEN HIS BIOLOGICAL FATHER AND OF COURSE ME AND HIS ADOPTED FATHER ARE GETTING A DIVORCE. I DONT THINK I'LL CALL HIM AND TELL HIM HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, BUT IDK. MY GIRLS HAS NEVER BEEN AROUND THEIR FATHER EITHER LAST TIME I SAW HIM I WAS LIKE 2 MONTHS PREGNANT WITH THEM. THE ONLY PEOPLE, I WOULD EVER GIVE A CARD, A PHONE CALL, OR ANYTHING TO WOULD BE KENNY SR & KEIRON. THEY ARE THE FATHER FIGURES MY KIDS BLESSED WITH. THEY LOVE KEIRON AND FROM HIS ACTIONS, HE SHOWS THAT HE LOVES THEM TOO. KENNY HAS BEEN THERE FOR ME SINCE DAY ONE AND HAS CONTINUED EVEN THOUGH MY KIDS ARENT HIS. THE GIRLS CALL HIM DADDY KENNY NOW.

AS GRATEFUL AS I AM TO HAVE THOSE 2 IN MY LIFE. I DONT TO HAVE THEM AROUND FOR MY KIDS I LOVE THEM BOTH TO DEATH, AND HAVING THEM THERE IS WONDERFUL, BUT I DONT FEEL LIKE IT IS NECESSARY. I KNOW SOME THINGS I CANT DO FOR MY KIDS LIKE A MAN CAN, BUT I TRY MY BEST.

I ALSO HAD A FRIEND WHO GAVE HER MOTHER A CARD FOR FATHER'S DAY AND IT WAS TITLE TO MY MOTHER ON FATHERS DAY.

SO IM NOT GOING TO SAY ITS NOT IMPORTANT BECAUSE HE STILL IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE THEIR FATHER, BUT THERE IS A MALE FIGURE IN THEIR LIVES AND IF HE CHOOSES NOT TO MAKE A WAY TO SEE HIS KIDS THEN HE IS MISSING OUT ON TWO VERY BEAUTIFUL ANGELS LIVES AND MAYBE DOESN'T DESERVE TO BE IN THEIR LIVES. YOU HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL BABIES SO DONT WORRY THEY KNOW THEY HAVE MOMMY AND SHE'S THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN THEIR LIVES RIGHT NOW.
I WISH YOU ALL WELL MAMA.

fernandez-pearcy - Friday, 19 Jun
I had no idea, sweety. Im sorry. Hit me up.

SuperHeroMom - Friday, 19 Jun
Sorry about your divorce. Stay strong and take care of those beautiful babies. Hopefully thier dad will stay in thier lives.

AshleyNicole1016 - Friday, 19 Jun
I have no reason to say I know what you feel because I don't, but I have thought about the same thing, a fatherless fathers day would be heck on both you and your kids. My baby's father doesn't want anything to do with our son, but regardless I don't know how you feel exactly as my baby isn't even here yet. I'm sure you could find things to do with them to keep the distance from being an issue. Maybe have a crafts like time for them to make fathers day cards to mail to the daddy as a ease to them and a phone call.

lovingmytoddler - Friday, 19 Jun
Hi hun, it's good to hear from you. I am sorry to hear about your divorce, and I know it's a hard time for you and the family all together. My advice is to make this weekend the best weekend for the kids. Your kids love you and they know that they want to see you happy. Hold your chin up, you deserve to be happy.

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