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	Age: 38 Country: US Province/region: Minnesota City: Twin Cities Metro Partner: Dan, 48 Children: Yes, 3 Pregnant: No Occupation: medical insurance recovery & very busy mommy!
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14-6-2008 - Rough Road!

My mood while writing this blog:
Sad

Okay, so this is kind of tough for me. Things between Dan and I have been pretty rough lately. The worst part of it is that I think he believes that everything is just fine. I have had a very difficult time at work lately because I fought for my rights and now my managment is retaliating. What it boils down to is that they were interpreting and enforcing a corporate policy incorrectly and I went to HR, because they refused to do so themselves, to be sure they were interpreting it right. They weren't and they were all pulled into a meeting & given the correct interpretation. It is not that I was out to get anyone in trouble. I just want the same consideration given to me as is given to all otheers in the corporation........anyhow. Dan is not being supportive at all! He told me that I "bruised management's ego and have to deal with the consequesces of that, and if I don't like it then I should get a new job" He told me that is just the way it is in corporate America and that I should buck up and take it! I can't believe how insensitive he is being. He's been this way for a while now and I just don't know what to do. Honestly, I truly believe that he cares about nobody but himself and his son. I don't know at this point if I should fight for our relationship or just let it go. I don't know if he is insecure or has a guilty conscience, but he went out of town for a political convention a few weeks ago and accused me of making plans behind his back while he's gone. I didn't make plans with my girlfriends, my family or anyone for while he was gone. All I wanted to do was get my house clean and plant my flower gardens! I did tell him off and said that if he couldn't learn to trust me and my love for him that we have nothing! He seemed a wee bit better after that, but I just don't know what to do at this point :(

4 Comments on Rough Road!

ZMiracleBoy - Monday, 16 Jun
Heh Girl! Are you ok? I'm reading your updates and boy.. oh.. boy.. All I can tell you is your not alone. ;) I hope you know that I am here for you if you need someone to talk to, I am here..... always!! I am going to go rock Zayden right now but I will check on you again tomorrow! I can't believe my baby is "1" today!

Allison - Monday, 16 Jun
My husband can be RIDUCULOUS like this too! He went to India for two weeks to see his family a few months ago and when he got back, he was all paranoid, as if I had "gone out" on him with another man. Oh, SURE- half the time I don't even get out of my PJ's or brush my hair, but YEAH, I have the time and energy and desire to see another man!!! HAH- right! SO stupid!!! The only "other man" I have in my life besides my husband, dad and brother is my "little man", my son! Hang in there, girl! You gotta stick up for yourself at work or else who will? They'll get over it- trust me! Take care xoxoxo

***AMANDABJH - Saturday, 14 Jun
Oh hunny I am so sorry that you are having some rough times in life right now. It will get better. Not saying that it wont take a turn for the worse before you get to better. But it will. You need to keep in mind one thing when it comes to men. They dont think, love, change,or care like women do. And we cant do anything with them. Love him, or leave him. But dont try to change him, it just makes thing worse for you. I love you hunny! Call anytime you need to talk. You and I have been down this road before together!!! Xoxoxoxoxoxo ME-

jamie - Saturday, 14 Jun
Isnt marriage wonderful!!! My husband punched a hole in the wall last night because he said I he was "sick of me correcting him in front of his son" well obviously with a reaction like that you can see why I feel the need to "correct him". He just has no common sense when it comes to anything. And by the way...I went out of town for a week (last month) and when I got home I found out he had been solicting hookers on craigslist here in our hometown. I followed the phone records and seen that he was talking to them when I was gone.....talk about being fed up!!!! I should just leave but I have this huge guilt because of the kids. They are so young I feel guilty having to work a full time job and not have a daddy around. Right now I am a sahm and cant imagine someone else raising my kids for 9 hours a day. But we all do what we have to. He is on his way home from work for "a talk" I am inches away from asking him to leave. I havent had a job in 5 years and I have no education or career experience. I do run our office (we own our own business) so I guess I could do that elsewhere. If he is the asshole, why do I feel so guilty?????????

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