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18-2-2009 - letter i wrote to my sons donor

My mood while writing this blog: frusterated

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Not sure where to begin. But there are some things we do need to talk about. I know you want a paternity test done on my son. I am perfectly ok with that. After all you can't fool a paternity test and I am not near dumb enough to even think that. I have been hearing some things that apparently you feel you have the right to say about me. Lets get a few things straight.

I did NOT cheat on you. I was NOT pregnant before we got togethere. Do the math, you were there for the ultrasound that confirmed my due date. I DO NOT sleep around! As apparently you have told people. As far as you telling people that my MOM told you that you are not the father of this baby...that is insane! My Mom would never say something like that, because it is simply NOT true.

You said that we were friends...friends do not spread rumors about their friends...even it they do knock them up. I have stayed out of your life. I want nothing from you. Why can't you do the same, and not trash my name just because you got me pregnant? I don't care if you want nothing to do with Ayden. He has plenty of people that DO love him.

The only thing I do want from you is a paternity test to prove to you and anyone else that you ARE his father, for the one and only reason to prove I did not lie! And then to sign the papers after I have them filed,giving up your parental rights. I dont want childsupport from you or anything else. I know you want nothing to do with Ayden and that is ok. Just give me and my son the respect not to trash me.

All of this could have been differnt. But I guess respect was not something you ever had for me. I am still not sure what I did to you to make you feel this way about me, but I guess you have your reasons. Just remember, it took two to make this baby.

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4 Comments on letter i wrote to my sons donor


a-stone - Thursday, 26 Feb
That was nicely put into words. U r a very strong woman to write it like that. No anger in it at all. I agree with mysurprise he is gonna feel dumb.

baby[bump]mama - Wednesday, 18 Feb
nicely said!

beachbumsnk - Wednesday, 18 Feb
aww :(

mysurprise - Wednesday, 18 Feb
Short & sweet & very powerful words. I'd feel dumb if I were him...