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03-11-2008 - Please help me understand...

My mood while writing this blog: confused

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I have been thinking about my exhusband, the father of my 3 and 4year olds for a few months now. I dream of him every night and I am not sure why. It has been driving me crazy. Do I miss him? I know our children do. Matthew my 4 year old asks all the time when is Daddy coming home. It breaks my heart!

Halloween he came home. He apologized a million times for how horrible he was to me and how sorry he abandoned us. He realized how much he has missed the past year. To top it all off, he said he wanted to be baby Johnny's Daddy. We were going to be a FAMILY again! He told our children he was coming home. He promised to fix it all. It was a great weekend!

Sunday came. He up and left, to go home to his girlfriend. It crushed me, but it devistated our son Matthew. He has closed himself up and looks away if you try to talk to him about Daddy. When responding about Daddy, he only grunts. The divorce itself was hard enough on him, now this!

The thing Mike is worried about most it seems is that his girlfriend doesn't find out we had sex. I asked him to come and talk to Matthew with me after he gets off work, but now he is too affraid to come over here as not to upset his girlfriend. Our son needs him, he needs some understanding as why his greatest wish was granted and just as quickly taken away!!!!!!!!!

Please help me understand....

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2 Comments on Please help me understand...


AmieRyansBabe - Monday, 3 Nov
I just wanna say that I hope that he comes to his sences and realizes what really matters to him..because it's really not good for you, the baby and his other children..you really don't need the stress of him coming and going it will just hurt all of you in the end..it sounds to me like he doesn't know what to say or do..I just hope that it all works out for you!! ((huge hugs))

Baby1one - Monday, 3 Nov
I am so sorry to hear your story! I do not have an ex husband but i know how it is to have your babies Daddy with another women and for her to matter more. It's hard. My lil guy is not here yet and it still baffles me. Have you thought about taking your lil guy to someone to talk with both of you? Just to open him up and make him realize what is happening is not his fault.
Again, i am so sorry. I can't understand either why men are this way. Unfortunately some of their priorities are screwed up and that seems to be all there is to it!