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| 04-1-2010 - Stupid Weight Loss |
My mood while writing this blog: Impatient |
This weight isn't coming off. I have been walking and exercising and only eating once a day basically starving myself. I guess I am just stuck at weighing 118.
I feel like I am not happy with my body because my bf isnt. If he liked it then I would be happy with myself. He says he likes it but only after he makes me cry from saying "Gosh, look at that stomach" "Your legs are so fat" UGHHH
14 Comments on Stupid Weight Lossbabyreynolds01 -
Wednesday, 13 Jan i just started at this new gym and my pt told me that when your metabalism reaches a certain level u wont lose anymore weight unless u feed your body (eat more protein and carbs) to burn more fat. seems strange to say but when i thought about it well it does make sense. your body gets used to the amount of food ur eating and adjusts to that amount. so if u starve urself or practically starve then all ur body is gonna do is shrink ur stomach (organ not outside) which isnt going to make u lose weight. i eat 5 times a day starting with a big meal in the morning followed by a walk then snack when i get back then lunch then gym then snack then small dinner about 7-8pm. ive been doing this for about a week and ive lost 3kgs already. as i lost 10kgs straight after pregnancy i was determined to lose more but i was like u, just walking and eating practically nothing. so i figured ill add the gym to the equation and the advice i got is doing wonders. i hope this helps as i know exactly how u feel. btw my gym workout is only light cos i had a csec so i have to start slow but its the diet change that i think has helped :P good luck hunni but remember a little weight on a woman isnt so bad it looks and feels better than stick thin xxx amber325 -
Wednesday, 6 Jan 9 months on...9 months off.....You have done great already! I was not even thinking of weight loss or pleasing my man lol.....Relax and it will come off! Eat something too....starving yourself is silly Mommy2AnL -
Tuesday, 5 Jan Why are you letting a man dictate how you feel about yourself? If YOU are unhappy, YOU need to fix it...he can't do the work for you so why let him have a say in how you feel about yourself? PS..YOU JUST GAVE BIRTH TO A BABY!!! You can't forget that, it's not like you gained an extra 10 lbs of holiday weight and you're just letting yourself go. You can't starve yourself either, you'll make yourself sick and still won't lose the weight like you want to...the other girls are right, 6 small meals and exercise is the only way to get your body back, and you'll have to resign yourself to the possibility that your body post-baby is never going to look like your body pre-baby. ~ I luv my boyz ~ -
Tuesday, 5 Jan I used to be small weighing 115 pounds when I was like 18...with every child you have you get bigger and it gets harder to take it off at least thats how it works for me,,,as others have said it takes technically 10 months to put it on and about 10 to take it all off safely...also as others have said try weighing like 150 to 170 pounds then feel bad about your weight.you look absolutely perfect plz dont starve yourself its really not good for you or baby:) angela32 -
Tuesday, 5 Jan Starving yourself can be creating the problem of no weight loss! You need to eat small meals throughout the day,that will speed up ur metabolism and cause theweight to come off.... NinaBo-Bina -
Tuesday, 5 Jan 118 lbs?? That a perfect weight. Get any smaller and you will diminish! MamaCas29 -
Tuesday, 5 Jan And...if that's a picture of your boyfriend in your pics holding a baby...he doesn't look like a skinny minny himself...you might remind him of that! MamaCas29 -
Tuesday, 5 Jan Wow. Sounds like you need to lose a boyfriend, not weight! Also, if you are breastfeeding, you should really be eating. It takes a lot of calories to make milk. I think one day you are going to look back at this time that you are worried about your weight and realize how unnecessary it was to worry so much. You look great. Things don't happen overnight. I'm 20 days postpartum. I'll post a pic later today of my tummy so you can see. You might be also suffering from some depression? I'm sorry you are having a tough time. claire louise -
Tuesday, 5 Jan OMG some bf. Foe a start your ONLY 118 which is alot less then man women who have just had a baby. He should grow up or get out thats sick to make your loved one feel so bad about herself that she only eats one meal aday. Your baby needs you and now is not the time to get sick coz thats whats gonna happen. XX 3blessings -
Tuesday, 5 Jan umm okay...118??? Girl, talk to me when you weigh 157 pounds like I do!!! I would kill to be even 140 pounds right now! Before getting pregnant I was 130, now I can't seem to lose the weight. I think you look great and don't need to lose anything. Ohh and BTW, I'm not trying to be mean, but your BF doesn't exactly look fit himself. So he's the last person who should be telling you you're fat! on5omg -
Tuesday, 5 Jan hahahaha i just looked at the pic of the guy holding ur baby. i assume this is the boyfriend u speak of. hahaha look at his damn belly! oh my! he has no reason to talk! how many months pregnant is he now?! (if thats not him, oops sorry mister lol) ♥Always -
Tuesday, 5 Jan For starters your BF needs to grow up and take a look at himself! Second you are not fat at all! Sweetie you need to be sensible about it all. You just had a baby and starving yourself is not good for you! Give your body time to recover after having a baby. Eat regular healthy meals included with moderate exercise. I was just looking at your photos and thinking DAMN i wish i look that toned while pregnant! There is nothing to you!!! ;) xxoo! mrsjmickens1 -
Monday, 4 Jan omg hes calling you fat at 118! tell him to f-off. if anythng he probly thinks your sexier n is afraid so do other men! dont let a man control how u feel about yourself..... shesAWKWARD -
Monday, 4 Jan tell your BF to shut up! lol grr!! you cant starve yourself into looseing weight. your body will actually store the fat. you have to eat 6 small meals a day. the point is never to let your self feel hungry or full just satisfied all day long. and do simple exersizes that you CAN do and just make sure to keep changing up your routine. it will eventually come off. just think of it this way it took nine months for your body to get that way and it will take nine more to get it back. its a process that most of us are going threw your not the only one out there. and DONT EVER let your boyfriend make you feel bad about your self! he didnt have to go threw what us women did. He is lucky to have such a great girl like you! and you can get better.. just remember that. i think he has forgotten. besides you look a lot better then he does! lol