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	Age: 27 Country: Canada Province/region: Ontario City: Toronto Partner: my husband Edward Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: stay at home with Eric
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21-1-2010 - what a mess

My mood while writing this blog:
annoyed and feel like whatever

Well i just got a phone call from my mom asking me for the baby swing and play gym my dumbass loser so called brother GAVE us when we had Eric. Looks like he's gonna be a daddy again! so pissed off! They broke it off in July then i went to Greece in oct and then he went for 2 weeks to Greece after us in november. she was with an other loser from aug till november and then i heard they're together in Dec and then i checked her facebook profile today caz ppl were asking me and saying her profile shows a prego test + with baby boots. i didn't know they were together at all as i don't talk to my brother anymore. i checked and ya there was this photo and then my mom calls me and askes for this stuff. my mom doesn't know when is due so we'll just see i guess. We dont even know the baby is my loser brothers or the other loser guy. i can't believe it! what made me and my husband more pissed off that this shit is between us not the kids right! well for christmas we bought julia a new dress and princess puzzles and a chocolate. our son got NOTHING! I didn't care but it also hurt. then i found out they left her gift at my moms so if she wants to play they are at my moms house and clothes. i'm sooo pissed! i must have spent soooooooooooo much on my niece and spent $400 on her first birthday! my son got at least $10 of a plastic car! i dont care as much but dont do this to the kids! not mine! He ignors Eric if he sees him at my moms house!

I dont even want him near my son, thats why we got Eric into daycare now. he will be going Feb 9th. i am soo sad but it's for the best. My mom came to my house yesterday morning to watch Eric as i had to work at 10am, i got a phone call from my mom at about 11:30 saying my loser brother(she doesn't say loser lol ) is coming to pick her and eric up caz Julia is sick and he needs her to take care of her! Their plan was to put eric in his car with car seat and julia in the other seat. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!! I told her no way and no hell is he driving my son or even coming near my home! i told her to tell him ur busy and you are looking after Eric he doesn't have a job and doesn't do shit allllllllllllllllllllll day!!! why cant he look after julia! her answer was he watched her a night big fucking deal! we watch our kids 24/7 when they are sick why can't he! i told her wait till Ed or i are done at 2-3 pm and when one of us is there tell the jerk to come and get you. noo he's on his way i said tell him to turn around go to ur house and i'll be there in 1/2 hr! i lost my shift caz of the fucked up loser! i am waitressing so i can save up for Erics daycare as my father pays for julias daycare he has offered but no thanks! we depand on us and we can do it. i just lost 2 days of pay and i'm pissed. he gets a free check and what he wants he gets. so i had to live come home pick eric and my mom and take her to her house then leave and come home again with Eric. I can't stand it anymore! she does whatever he wants! why can't she open her mouth and say noooooooooooo i am busy with Eric and when ed or kathy come home i will see u then it's only a few hours not days! Why does she agree right away before asking me if it's okay!! why call me and say whats happening ASK ME FIRST So fucking pissed.

Sorry for swearing so much but i am soooooo pissed off.

I really dont wanna give them the swing and play gym. i'm sooo pissed and just wanna kick her assssssssssssssssssssssss.

Any adivse would be great, what would you do and how would you feel?

thanks for listening :) Kathy

2 Comments on what a mess

Pocahontas - Thursday, 21 Jan
I am so sorry you are having such a horrid time with your family. Unfortunately I don't have any advise that could help. - L

Debra - Thursday, 21 Jan
Oh my kathy. I'm sorry they are in your family! about the swing- was it a gift from them to you? Or something you borrowed from them. if it was yours, you can do with it what you like. If you aren't planning on having any more kids, i'd sell it. I would not give it to them. Your brother doesn't even know if the kid is his anyways. The rest, depends on how much contact you want with your family right now. If they were my family, I'd talk to each one of them point blank. Tell your mom that she is hurting you and your family by playing favorites and its not fair. If she wants to continue to have a part in Erics life, then she can continue down the road she has chosen. I'd also tell your brother to grow some balls and take a parenting course. Learn how to take care of his kids or get a vasectomy. He doesn't sound like he knows how to take care of one child- let alone two. I'd have this conversation with your husband at your side and with your mom and your brother at the same time. It is terrible that they are treating you this way and hurting your son. That should be your first priority. And I would never spend that kind of money on my neice either. A $10-30 toy is appropriate for a child- they break. If you want to spend more money on her, I would ask if you can open an RESP account for her and contribute to that. At least then you can hope that she might be able to have an education and not end up as stupid as her parents.

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