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Kitty210704
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26-7-2008 - Annoyed

My mood while writing this blog:
flustered

I am really learning want watching behaviors of others with kids and how they affect the kids up bringing. For example, My sister is two yrs older with 3 kids, married 6 yrs. She has a girl 4 boy 3, and another boy 6 mos. She is a good mom other then the fact she has a VERY SHORT FUSE!!! She gets annoyed at the drop of a hat and yells at anyone she is made at right in front of the kids! Her daughter has a tendency to act just like her ad she observes EVERYTHING! Idk, what im trying to say is I dont want to ever yell and screem in front of my kids. My sister and I are close but Its like walking on eggshells every second of each day. I really feel bad for her husband.. They fight ALL the time and you can never please her. She has a negative thought about everything and she doesnt like to have company including family... just the thought of it makes her made. I really dont know.. I guess im learning what not to do.. Dont get me wrong she loves her kids!!!!! I could never denie that, its just she lets her anger get the best of her. She or her husband would NEVER Ever hit the kids ... its just she yells and has a very short temper! . ..

I guess im venting because we just had a fight over money. I paid her cell bill over a month ago and I have been running low on cash and she is talking about getting a $150 tattoo and I ask her about the $60 she owes me.. She BLOWS UP!! I still have a headache and it was 45 min ago... She says i always talk money at the wrong time and piss her off.. Well, i say there is never a right time with her... It takes Looking at her the wrong way to piss her off. thats how easy it is.. IDK . I am the calm one... and i DONT need this stress. Thats why I left before it got too bad. She said she would pay me tomorrow but she said it spitfully :( We were on our way out together even .. Now im just home.. alittle stressed cause no one likes to fight with their family... its so hard to understand why she acts the way she does.. you cannot talk money with her ever.. Trust me im not rich. I live from paycheck to paycheck and drive and hr away for work each day and Im a single mom to be . living alone and have been for years making it all by my self .. and she makes it harder. They have two incomes comming in and she tells me about being broke! What about me.. i can barely support myself and im supposed to bring a life into this world. She thinks I dont feel her pain.. The hell I dont! I was doing the right thing by helping her with a bill and it came back to bite me in the ass..

3 Comments on Annoyed

-newnaam - Monday, 28 Jul
Your sister is like me...I have a very bad short temper too....but I know my limits. I don't get mad over money...but when people ask to borrow money, I say NO. Unless its a small amount, than it's fine. But money is a big issue in relationships and thats why its a majority of divorce. People are selfish and never think about others and their feelings (like ur sister). U need to tell her she has her own families and kids, she need to pay her own shit. If she can't afford to pay a bill, she shouldn't be having it in the first place. If she can't afford to pay her cell, she shouldn't be having one unless she get one of those pay as you go phone. Don't give her money on something that isn't useful...like a tattoo. If she wants it so bad let her get one with her own money, but seriously...I know she's ur sister, but you need to tell her she needs to grow up and act her age and be responsible. You can't help her anymore now, she needs to help you, you're pregnant and you need as much help than she does...you need to save those money for urself and ur baby...and if she doesn't listen or understand...I would ignor her for months until she come to her senses.

annekat - Sunday, 27 Jul
Ok I am vert brutelly honest with people and just say what I feel I just hope it comes across right.
1.do not lend your sister any money she is better off than you and you need the money for your baby. Think of yourself and little one first. Just say you dont have it.

2. never interfere with the upbringing of someone elses kids, only if there is abuse happening. Fair enough she needs to sort out that temper of hers and you can just maybe drop subtle hints towards not doing it in front of kids but it can cause a massive fall out of you where to say how she should bring up her kids.
3.maybe she is deressed and has anxiety if she is edgy all the time. Maybe if she can calm down for a while and talk to you, i am sure you have showed her how concerned you are so maybe she will open up. hard to say when I dont know her.
4. its their problem not yours. you want to help but you have enough on your plate and when baby is born you dont need their problems to.
5. not knowing your sister dosnt help here but it sounds like she needs help. I dont know what else I can say only take care of yourself first and hope the rest falls into place after that.

Kitty210704 - Saturday, 26 Jul
She was like this before she ever had kids to be totally honest. I think she is depressed in general. She just doesnt follow through with getting help.

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