23-9-2009 - my BD's girlfriend messaged me

My mood while writing this blog: whatever

First of all, the little face up there is supposed to be me rolling my eyes at this chick, lol!

Anyways, yes you read correctly. Roland's girlfriend messaged me on Facebook. And, ladies, I would not have a problem with this if she had stop after she stated that we should meet to avoid all the drama. However, she continued and tried to say she knew how I felt and that she wouldn't want any other woman around her baby too. I'm thinking: you don't know how I feel because you've never been left alone to raise a child while the father cheated on you and lied to you about virtually EVERYTHING, including the whereabouts of your child. Also, if she wouldn't want another woman around her child, why would she willingly spend time with my child when she knew I didn't want that to happen (at least til we met)??! This chick went even more outside her mind when she called me disrespectful! She told me I was disrespectful when she called Rol and he was over here visiting Jayde (he hadn't seen her in 2 weeks and wouldn't even give her any attention cuz he was on the phone...i didn't even know it was HER, and i simply suggested to him that he should give Jayde more attention cuz it had been a whole 2 weeks!). Anyways, yall I'm done with the drama. I messaged her back and just said I have no problems with you and could care less if you have a problem with me. I did set her straight on calling me disrespectful and mentioned that it's whatever if I meet her or not cuz right now Rol doesn't see Jayde unless I supervise the visit, so she wouldn't be around my daughter anyways. Man, I am SOOOO done!

I'm just ready for Monday...my boo is coming for a few days! :) Lucas will make it all better, lol. Soooo falling for him right now!