30-10-2009 - I need your help..

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

There is a soldier in my husband's unit who's wife is pregnant. They have been told, pretty definately it seems, (they are already making arrangements for the funeral), that the baby wont survive long after birth due to something to do with the brain, we don't know the specifics because my husband isn't that kind of guy, and I'm not really friends with this girl.. They as a couple are far from family, just like a lot of soldier's families (us included) and having been through a loss and I'm pregnant I feel compelled to show her that she has support here besides the mental health workers and doctors... So, my question is, what would be an appropriate gift or gesture? I want something tangible... When I lost our baby I was given a rock that says "gone yet not forgotten, even though we are apart, your spirit lives with in me, forever in my heart" and I see it everyday when I go into my bathroom, it reminds me of her, to take a second for her and I really appreciate it, so do you think it would be okay if I got them something like this?? or would I be overstepping boundries since we aren't really close?

I found my stone!! I think I may get it for her..

My Stone