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Mama Bri has 72 days to go and is now in week 29
	Age: 25 Country: United States Province/region: City: Partner: My wonderful husband Josh Children: Yes, 3 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 03 Aug ,2013 Occupation: SAHM
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26-11-2009 - Ex-husband fear

My mood while writing this blog:
Anxious

Wow, well first off let me start off by saying Happy Thanksgiving! Well, I am really nervous. I talked to my ex hubby today. We started being friends towards the beginning of my pregnancy. It isn't a bad friendship, but I am starting to have some fears about this. I know how him and his family are. I am really scared that he is going to try to pull something over on me. More like his mom would try but still. His family is the type that just to make my life harder, they would have social services come to our house for some odd reason. Or they would claim that the baby is his and not my husbands. I just fear this becuase when we were married, he couldn't give a care less about me. Infact, it was him who did the leaving. He wouldn't talk to me for almost 1 1/2 years after our divorce, now he is loving and friendly. He has never been like this. Not even in High school. Am I just nervous or should I really be worried? I would expect my ex bf to do this but Clay seems to be showing more interest in me and the baby. Before I got pregnant, he wouldn't talk to me, or anything. To be quite honest, I didn't expect him to want to be my friend or anything. If anything I got the closure I am looking for and think that our friendship is nice, but feel it could be too good to be true. I am really trying to relax. But tell me, should I be worried? Any advice?

4 Comments on Ex-husband fear

Mama Bri - Saturday, 28 Nov
Me and my husband were close friends before we got married. I have been putting my energy into this marriage. I have no problem with the fact that I was "dumped" so to speak. During this pregnancy we have talked maybe a whole 7 days here and there during six months if that. My husband and him were also very close friends in college. They still have a friendship as well so as far as he cares, it is my call as long as I don't get too involved beyond where I get too stressed again. I am trying to figure out where that point is.

charlihadley - Saturday, 28 Nov
why are you having a relationship w/an ex husband that you don't even have children with??? what the heck does your present husband think?? Holly Cow!!! You really need to put your energy into your present marriage & baby to come....kick that ex to the curb!!! HELLO you got your conformation it hurts to be dumped...but now RUN he isn't your concern your present husband is OR is he?? just a wake up call!!!

kavanna - Friday, 27 Nov
i think u should brake the friendship u'p because if u already no thats how they are he might have a plan on doing something any u dnt want to put urself n it and do ur BF no bout u n him being friends cus i dnt think it waS a good idea once a snake all ways and i AGREE WITH julianna and Bjenna1 ur haven these worries for a reason its a wake up call just an early one before someone gets hurt xoxo vanna hope u find the best way out .........

Julianna - Friday, 27 Nov
Honestly...He's an ex for a reason...if you have no children together I'd break the ties and leave it at that...especially because of your worries

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