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26-1-2010 - update

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the miscarrage started on its own Thursday, so I took the pills to help it along..had a very painful night and Firday...still having alot of cramping the bleeding. I go to see the RE Thursday morning for a repeat hCG to see if my levels are dropped to O yet and an ultrasound to make sure all tissue is passed. If so we move on to the "full work up" not sure what all that is because last time I saw her I was to upset to ask many questions. I am just praying that everything has passed and I can avoid a DNC. Will update again after seeing her on Thursday. I feel some comfort in knowing what a wonderful doctor she is and that we are now in the right hands and I believe good hands! Emotionally we are still very hurt! DH is really loosing faith..all he wants is to have children together...I want that for him and us together as well. It has been hard to keep the faith this past week...but it will get better as time goes on. DD doesnt know what is going on but she knows Mommy is "sick" and "sore" and unable to ski, skate, sled and play the way we usually do so it effects her aswell!! It breaks my heart! I am trying to be strong...DH and I deal very differently he likes alone time and to shut the world out where I want constant contact and to be held and consoled... so this doesnt work very well but we are both trying to give each other what we need!

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5 Comments on update


jastinel - Wednesday, 10 Feb
hi ,i am so sorry for your losses,i too suffered losses,i had my son in 2007 and in 2008 had two etopics one in april one in sept they had to remove my right tube,in 2009 i had two m/c one in jan that was natural at home really scarry,the other one in july where at 10weeks found out baby died at 6weeks,i am now 13 weeks pregannt and still feel scared at times even though each two time of u/s i saw baby and hb at 165 and 170.i have to keep the faith and i do but i have another appt on the 22nd and hope to hear the hb again,i have never made it this far since my son in 2007,please try to keep the faith i too had test done and they came out all normal no one knew what was wrong ,i just think it was not meant to be at that time,i k now its difficult but you can get through it,just think positive,you are younger then me so you still have plenty of time left i know it can happen at any time but i just tell you to keep yourself thinking positive and you have your one child so it is possible to have a baby,may i ask why you were talking all the things the doctor told you to take they told me the same thing i did and the result was m/c i have not taken anything this time just extra careful and lots of rest and fluids try to stay positive it will happen when you least expect it

beckybear - Wednesday, 27 Jan
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I hope everything has finished and you don't have to do the D&C. And I'm glad you've found a doctor that can help you down the road. I know your heart hurts right now. {hugs}

Sarahbeth13 - Wednesday, 27 Jan
I am so very sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. I have been thinking of you and wishing you the best. Good luck with the testing. I hope you get some answers. I often hear of people (my sister in law and close friend included) that get the testing and then find out something totally treatable is wrong and then just tweaking things a little, maybe some baby aspirin and extra folic acid or progesterone suppositories and then they have a perfect healthy pregnancy the next time. I wish this for you and your family very very much! Please keep me posted. big huge hugs!!!

readyfor3 - Wednesday, 27 Jan
you are in my thought hun, I hope everything is okay at your appointment. x

roosa - Tuesday, 26 Jan
I am so sorry you are going through this.... Lots of hugs, Karin