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18-6-2008 - Fed Up!!!!

My mood while writing this blog: Pissed off

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I know i most likely shouldnt be writing about this......but im so freaking fed up with everything right now!!! I dont know how to handle it anymore. so im hoping writing about it will help me releive some anger before i blow up on the next person that talks to me. Everytime Johnny doesnt get his way he starts throwing a fit...and he runs to daddy which of course gives him what he wants which in turn makes me the bad person. Im so sick of it. Im so far past my point of breaking that im on the verge of shattering! and no one even seems to notice or care. wait let me re-word that, everyone notices and cares EXCEPT my husband(who should notice and care the most youd think). When he gets home from work, yea he tired becasue hes worked all day but im tired too im 8 months pg and dealing with a temper tantrum throwing 2.5 yr old. i need a break too. He gets a break when he goes to work(if you know what i mean) so when he gets home i ask him to do a couple things for me and all he wants to do is sit on the computer looking up crap that he doesnt need. I ask John to give Johnny a bath 3 hours later i end up giving him a bath because john is "to tired" well im sorry but hes to tired to give johnny a bath then he should be to tired to sit here on the computer all flippin night...i ask him to change a diaper and what happens?? yea i end up changing it... all i wsant is a break just for an hour or so just to get a peice of mind. i dujnno maybe im over reacting

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1 Comments on Fed Up!!!!


jeni - Wednesday, 18 Jun
i soooo do not think you are overreacting... mom's have 24 hour a day jobs... you can't take a break two times a day or have an hour lunch... especially 8 mos pregnant... as for your husband, sorry to say that he is genetically predisposed to not getting it... that whole xy chromosome thing... lol. see if you can get someone to take the little man for a couple of hours - go to lunch with a girlfriend, relax, or go shopping. and remind your husband that you don't get to leave your job... you are tired, exhausted and just plain fed up. or you could also try the ambush tactic - when he comes home, be waiting by the door with your purse and say - hi honey. hope you had a good day - dinner is on the stove/in the oven - whatever - and say - btw i am going out for a little bit.. i need a break. call me if it is an emergency...

i do that once in a while and it works for the most part . good luck and dont' worry - we are all there, have been there or will be there...