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10-9-2009 - ranting about stupid people......... may be harsh for some ears :0) annoyedMy mood while writing this blog:
annoyed



This was posted on a pregnancy site, when a lady was thinking about getting on birth control she was asking about different forms of birth control and what the likelihood of getting pregnant on an IUD was. I came across this response, and I tell you, if I ever run into someone this stupid I would literally punch her in the throat……….. listen to what this poor girl had to go through,… UGH…..

“Yes, i recently found out i was pregnant with the copper T IUD after three years. i had a normal period about a month ago i began having unusual spotting which was common with my IUD approximately 5 days ago on the 6th day i had severe blood loss and cramping many of my periods were very heavy after i had the IUD put in place but i kept thinking that a heavy period is a small price for not becoming pregnant This so i kept it in regardless. i had a history of being very fertile i had been pregnant on many different forms of birth control, different kinds of the pill, the morning after pill, condom use, everything failed. dr's questioned me at a young age wondering if i missed pills or didn't take them properly or was careless. it was never the case. after a bunch of pregnancies including 2 miscarriages one ectopic pregnancy and 5 abortions and 2 children. i wanted to have my tubes tied and since i was under 30 they didn't want to do it. my dr knew my history and knew i was pretty much forced into motherhood and felt robbed of having a supportive partner and fairy tale relationship. i never wanted any children to be honest. i did what i could to avoid it from happening. so after my last abortion the doctor put in the IUD. told me it was 99.99% effective for 5 yrs. so here I am 3 yrs later at the hospital. the on call doctor had no idea what to think of the severe bleeding and took a look and seen the IUD was in the right place still. the ob/gyn came after 9 hours at the hospital and asked if I've had a urine test. it came back positive. he said the IUD will have to come out and that the pregnancy would terminate itself and i was to be sent home to have a miscarriage. 6 days later (today) I went to the doctor and had a pregnancy test it was positive still. I haven't had any bleeding since the IUD was taken out. I was told the last time I had an abortion that they wouldn't do anymore it would be too dangerous to my health. so here i sit pregnant again when I did what I could to prevent it.”

OMG, I was freaking speechless! I don’t even know where to start, but since I can not punch this girl in her slutty face, I thought I would take to a blog. A ranting blog! BWAHAHAHA……. Okay first of all, this probably wouldn’t normally make me want to slap a ho, but knowing what all of my dear friends on this site have gone through to have their babies, (some not even knowing what it is like…. YET) this little girl makes my blood boil. First off, when did we become animals that have no control over our sexual urges? I mean seriously, how can she actually think that she had no choice but to keep having sex with random guys? Poor ho bag, can’t sleep with everyone under the sun without getting pregnant. Come on! 2 miscarriages, 1 ectopic, 5 abortions, and 2 children??!! All under the age of 30. We should find this girl and present her with the “Skank of the trailer park award” and it will be made out of used condoms and cigarette butts. She probably would love it as long as everyone cheered and told her that she wasn’t a piece of crap, she was actually a poor misunderstood victim of botched birth control. “It’s okay sweetie, you shouldn’t be expected to keep your legs closed, you should be able to sleep with anyone and everyone that you want to, and if you happen to get pregnant with one of those parasites that some people call babies, you can kill it, and just keeping screwing anything that moves” Oh and that is where everyone starts cheering again. YAYYY……SLUTS! How does this stupid woman really believe that she was forced into motherhood and robbed of a fairy tale relationship. “ummm,… hey sweetie, I hate to break it to you but Prince Charming doesn’t go for chicks with Warts and Funk, and especially the ones that will try and dry hump the King, the Queen, and all of the horsemen, okay?” If her doctor “knew her history”, which is code for “knew I was an uncontrollable hooker”, then he should have tied her knees together. You knew that doctor was probably thinking, “ewww, this chick again, I’m gonna have to double glove it and wear my BIO suit”! I love the part where she has no emotion over the fact that she was going to have a miscarriage by having the IUD removed. She was probably at home just waiting and waiting, anticipating the exit of this stupid baby, and it never came. Tell me how someone can sleep at night knowing that they have had so many abortions, that they are not allowed to have any more because it could kill them! Are you kidding me? That is so disgusting, and I really hope that she is not the caregiver to her children, because I would hate to see how this selfish beast treats them……… thus me having to punch her in the throat. See how I circled the story back to punching this chick? Thanks for reading. I could say more but it would be far more inappropriate :0)

** Apparently a few people on here are upset by what I said on here. This was NOT in response to a girl on this site. I will never put down something someone says on their blogs on IAP, this was a random answer to a birth control question on a yahoo forum..... it made me sick. sorry for those who don't like what I said, but there are more people that agree with me than there are of you.




13 Comments on ranting about stupid people......... may be harsh for some ears :0)


aussiemum2b - Sunday, 13 Sep
I agree with you too babe..OMG 10 pregnancies!!!! That is CRAZY... And I saw your humour right from the start..don't worry about those other people who don't get it... we all have the right to speak freely.. :-)

firstlittleangel - Friday, 11 Sep
omg that is all I can say!! I totally agree with you!

just♥mommy - Friday, 11 Sep
Wow, that is freaking unbelievable!! I hope to God for those children's sake, that this is a fake story! However I will 100% back you up on this one... even though my mom had me as the result of the pill not working and my brother (9 months after my sisters birth) after having her tubes tied. We were both that 1-2% chance. Haha... and my daughter was born as a failure of the condom. But I completely agree with you... that is disgusting and it pisses me off so bad that she's had that many abortions when there are soooooooooooo many people out there right now struggling to become parents and she's just murdering these babies left and right. She should be state mandated to get her tubes tied. And if she didn't want kids period... then she should have EVERYTHING removed. Ughhh I'm just sooo angry reading this. 10 pregnancies??? Are you kidding me?? Wow. Good for you for voicing your opinion... if people find this to be ok and are upset with you -- then that's their own fault...not yours. There comes a time and a place where 10 UNWANTED pregnancies is far from being okay and should NOT be felt sorry for. STOP HAVING SEX!! Simple as that. Or you better start using BC, Both female AND male condoms and even better, PULL OUTTTTTT!!!! What the hell is wrong with these people??

mamabear13 - Thursday, 10 Sep
My answer for this CHILD is that perhaps she should have carried to term and given the children up for adoption, crud, she could have made 5 people oh wait, she didn't want any, 7 people VERY happy! It bugs me that she knows what causes it and blames it on faulty birth control, but I know from experience that it doesn't always work. With her history, a doctor should have given her the tubal ligation, at least she was honest, and I'm surprised the DOCTOR didn't SUGGEST it earlier. Although, to be honest, I am having a tubal after I have this baby (a planned pregnancy) and the only reason they are letting me do it under the age of 30 is because I have 2 children, both high risk pregnancies and I am married and my husband agreed that it would be too risky to have anymore in the future.

Trini - Thursday, 10 Sep
AMEN Sister! She is sick! I would punch her too.Yet the women in a stable situation, wanting babies can't have them. Why is that?? Question of a lifetime I suppose.

alexandnicksmommy - Thursday, 10 Sep
I happen to come across your blogs by accident. I loved the comment about the doctor sewing her legs together!!! Loved it!!!!

luckywhite - Thursday, 10 Sep
i got preg on the pill, i got preg using condoms had one accident and took the morning after pill and still got preg . sometimes life just throws stuff at you. you have to deal with it the best way you can. doesnt mean shes a slut just means she cant find something that works for her.. she could be married for all you know. im not being nasty to you you are soooo entitled to your opintion - but i understand what its like being let down by contraception. perhaps it was a fake story set to shock. perhaps shes venting her soul as she is traumatised. you just never really know the back story - i think it sounds like a fake story.

mmyof3angels - Thursday, 10 Sep
5 abortions?!?!?! Now that makes me sick! If you cant have sex and then deal with the consequences even IF you are on b/c, she is obviuiosly super fertile and should be taking EVERY precautuion even if she is on the IUD, but take responsibilty for what you have made? Ughhh makes me ill.

Arleneholm28 - Thursday, 10 Sep
Ewww @ the girl! She sounds plain out pitiful and tacky! Is there such a thing as being "very fertile"! I don't think so! Maybe she needs to double up on the condoms! Her tubes should have been tied in the Dominican republic or somewhere If it was refused to her in the US! Shaking my head!

MrsMommy2 - Thursday, 10 Sep
She says these men who are her children's fathers aren't supportive and she can't have the fairy tail relationship so what is she doing sleeping w/ this man and or men to begin w/ if he/they is a loser? I agree w/ you 100% she sounds like a slut! Goodness I know so many women on this site and off that would die to have one baby and there she goes sleeping around just to terminate them! I would never do that even if DH and I said 100% we were done after we have this baby and I ended up preggo again down the road you bet your butt i'd be announcing it to the world and getting ready for baby #3 reguardless if I had planned on it or not. That is just a horrible thing for somebody to say that has 2 kids that she never wanted children. I know a lot of people say that but once they have them they can't believe they ever thought they didn't want them and never look back! Gosh I can't imagine saying I never wanted kids after having my son I remember my life before him and now that he's here I can't imagine living another day w/out him! Grrr some people!

BunnyMama - Thursday, 10 Sep
LOL @ sew her knees together. lmao! i couldn't stop saying "OMG" while i was reading her comment. Seriously....10 pregnancies that you didn't want. I can't believe she has had so many abortions...that really is a shame. Nobody should haev the right to decide whether a child lives or dies. If she really is so fertile she should double up on her protections. Shoot if you don't want to get pregnant you should take extra precautions.....take the pill, use a condom and spermicide if possible. If you don't want to do all of that then you shouldn't have sex PERIOD!!! thats one way of knowing your protected.

firstmommy08 - Thursday, 10 Sep
Wowzers Carrie!! - that didnt make you upset or anything, did it? LOL. It's so true though... I mean, how some women & men are. Sleeping around with anyone & everyone - like there ar no consequences. Recently, (you know I work in the ER) I remembered this young girl coming into the ER FREAKING out because they told her that she was pregnant. She must have been 20 maybe 21. She was freaking out because she took the "morning after" pill and it didn't work. Just like any form of birth control, nothing is %100 guarnateed. I was furious inside. I remember thinking, "than maybe you shouldn't have spread your legs!" Come on people- get real!!! It makes me so angry!! This is just one scenerio, there has been many that I've run into working in the ER and I just so want to say "If you only knew....."But anyway... I hear what your saying sista!!!

Miracle 3 - Thursday, 10 Sep
OH my - yes I kept thinkinkg her story would end good somehow.. Sad that she doesn't care about theese precious babies and that she doesn't think abou thte fact that her sleeping around will have consequences. Hope her life turns around - She needs GOD!
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