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08-4-2009 - too many decisions~

My mood while writing this blog: is crazy feeling a mood?

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I seriously feel as if there at just too many decisions! I dont even mean the long term " will I let my daughter date before the age of..", or "it is ok that my son wants to tap dance?," decisions; I mean the Cloth or Disposables, Glass bottles only?, yellow or green type of decisions. The thing is with your first, I dont think you know. I treid to ask other people but I only know one other person that is only 3 months further then me, and otherwise I dont think my spastic sister who had her baby 10 years ago is the right consolt. Dont dare ask your monther, its been close to 30 years and she made, yes made, all her own cloth diapers. I dont have that kind of time.

I drive an hour and a half to work every day, then an hour and a half home. So if in the event i ACTUALLY leave on time after a nine hour work day, I already at 12 hours before I even get home. Now since I'm knocked up, yes even though I am married its knocked up, and yes we were trying, I want to sleep at least my 8 hours so thats already 20 hours out of my day. Never mind cooking a meal or two for dinner and playing with the dog for a faw minutes. Now I'm at only a few precious hours left in the day, and what! you want me to work out, clean the house, and actually have a conversation with the hub...BREATH!

Take all this and add it to the 100 decision people keep asking me about for the baby, and i'm about ready to break. No I have nto thought about the type of child care service I will want to use A YEAR AND A HALF from now when I go back to work. I was thinkining that since my husnabd is usually off that time of year, he could do it, then in the spring of 2011 (yep,thats right, now I planning spring '11), we could find a solution. What do you mean there are wait lists already for the best places? is that even possible? I can get reservations at some of the most prestigious resturants, twice before then, on new years. And no I havent decided if I think the colour red is ok for my (potential) son to wear! Ok thats a bit over board, but I think you get my point. What is it with people? And when did this become so crazy? I mean the human race has been around for thousnads of years, and they didn't care what a bugaboo was. Its just a pram people, just a pram. It is not going to define your childs personallity till the end of days, is it?

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