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25-9-2008 - Why Men Don't Understand

My mood while writing this blog:
Ok

I am so upset right now.. my fiance is a complete jerk!!!!! I swear he really, really make me sick sometimes because of his uncaring attitude. Can I just get some compassion PLEASE. I'm fucking not sleeping, my feet are swelling, my back hurts, and I work 8 hours a day and then have to put up with his stupid ass. Do I get "baby would you like for me to massage your feet or back," "baby do you need me to help cook" or fuck that take me out to dinner... NO.. all I get his ass complaining about work, about his other kids, about how tired he is.. I'm sick of it and him!!!!!!!!!! But when I get fed up and I'm ready to kick his ass out my life, he comes crying to me like a baby (I'm getting ready to have one of those) I don't need two.

Lord know I'm already anxious about this pregnancy because of what's happen before (my miscarriages) and I'm trying my best to just enjoy it but its hard. Then worrying about how good of a mother I'm going to be and all that good stuff.. I don't need him making it worse. I just had to vent because I've been crying all day and its just all balled up inside.

I'm just tired. :-(

7 Comments on Why Men Don't Understand

lisa0704 - Monday, 29 Sep
Men really don't get it and I have come to realize that, so mentally I have prepared myself to do most of the work when it comes to the new one. I am so glad we don't live together right now or else I might be in jail.

shay76 - Friday, 26 Sep
I can really say that I know where your coming from. When everything started out thats how my boyfriend was and I had to let him know what he was doing. Now things are getting better. Its good to vent but you also have to let them know what they are doing because sometimes they don't know. Men don't think how we think so we have to sometimes think for them or inform them of whats going with us..Try that and see what happens, but don't let it bring you down like Beauti said the baby picks up on those vibes and it not good. Always remember this though , GOD WILL NEVER MORE ON US THAN WE CAN BEAR... You remember that and keep your head up.... GOD BLESS

brownsugar - Friday, 26 Sep
try not to let him stress u out mama.I know exactly how u feel trust me i went through the same stuff with my husband when i got pregnant with my baby girl.sometimes men can just be jerks. all we really want is for them to respect us and to care more about how we are feeling sometimes. Is that so damn hard for them to understand.We deserve special attention especially when we are caring their children inside of our womb. The least they could do is show us how much they appreciate it. don't worry mama things will get better and there is nothing wrong with venting that is what we are here for to support u as much as we can.

Beauti - Friday, 26 Sep
*****HUGS*****
I understand!! I know exactly what you mean!!! Just try and take some time out for yourself if possible...ALONE, and focous on the fact that you want your baby to be healthy and happy. Inside the womb children can pick up on negative vibes...so just TRY and relax!

*smoochies*
~Beauti

lashae - Thursday, 25 Sep
Girl, I know exactly what you mean. Mine act an ass to, like everything is supose to be about him. I feel where you are coming from. You work 8 hours a day get home he's does nothing but sit on his ass watch TV. or play that stupid ass game, want to know when you are going to start cooking, then it's why don't you get you and the kids clothes ready for the next day. I'm like than what the hell are you going to do. It's like what the hell are you here for if I have to do everything by myself than on top of that you want me to do for you. What about me. Sister i feel you!!!!!

Military-wifey - Thursday, 25 Sep
Its going to be ok......your going thru a lot of hormone issues right now. I vented a lot about and to my hubby simply b/c the 2nd half of this pregnancy he was not around. I tried to stay strong thru it all but the truth is, I was hurt deep down b/c its going on October and I've seen my husband all of maybe 3wks this whole entire year. Military life isn't easy and having to deal w/ him in Iraq yet a 3rd time is really hard. I didn't know him the first time he went. That's around the time he had his son. W/ both my girls he was not around, he was in Iraq. Just pray things will get better and realize how blessed you are to even have him around. Lord knows I wish I could vent to my husband again. But until December, my girls are all I have.

2 4the price of 1 - Thursday, 25 Sep
u know what you sound like how i felt this morning, all i can say is keep your head up, i did a whole lot of crying today felt like shit and if i didn't have the outlet of you ladies i don't know what i would have done.
babes they just don't get it!!! how we are feeling the emotions and i know I'm not equipped to give you any sound advice but i will be here to be an outlet for venting and communication....xx

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