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24-11-2008 - LADIES PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THIS SOUNDS LIKE

My mood while writing this blog:
CONFUSED ANGRY AND UNHAPPY

WELL IM HAVING SOME TOURBLE FIGURING THIS OUT. LAST NIGHT KIENAN CAME IN ON THE PHONE WITH SOMEONE AND LEAVES THE ROOM AND THEN HE ISNT ON THE PHONE ANYMORE. THEN WE GET INTO IT AND CUZ I WAS PISSED THAT HE DECIDED TO BE AT WORK INSTEAD OF HOME WITH ME HE HAD JUST DID 16 HOURS AND STAYED TILL 9PM. THEMN HE GOES TO SLEEP AND I WAS IN PAIN. I GET UP CALL MY MOM SO THE NEXT THING TO DO IS CALL HIS MOTHER. I GO INTO HIS TEXT MESSAGES AND SEE THAT ANOTHER WOMAN WAS TEXTING HIM AND SENT HIM AN INAPPROPRIATE PICTURE. SO I IMMEDIATLY RUN OUT THE ROOM CRYING AND ASKING WHY AND HIS ASS DIDNT EVEN GET UP I KEPT CALLING HIM AND ASKING HIM WHERE IS THE HOSPITAL AND HE TOLD ME BROOKDALE AND DIDNT WAKE THE HELL UP. SO I FINALLY TURN ON THE LIGHT AND GET HIS ASS UP THEN HE SEES THAT IM DRESSED AND LEAVING (I DIDNT KNOW WHEATHER I WAS GOING TO THE HOSPITAL OR HOME TO CRY TO MY MOM) THEN THE PAIN WENT AWAY AND WE TALKED ABOUT THE WOMAN. COME TO FIND OUT THIS NASTY ASS WOMAN IS MARRIED WITH KIDS AND HSE STILL WANTS TO FOOL AROUND WITH KIENAN. SO I CALL HER AND SHE TRIES TO BE MAD AT ME THAT I CALL HER AND SO SHE TEXTED HIM AND SAYS "I LOVE YOU BABY" SO I CURSED HER OUT AND SHE CALLS ME BACK HAVING SOME OTHER PERSON CURSING AT ME AND STUFF SO I GET JUST AS VULGAR THEN KIENAN LOKS ALL DUMB FOUNDED AND WE FINISH TALKING ABOUT IT AND HE GOES BACK TO BED. I GET UP TO SEE HIM ABOUT TO LEAVE AND HE LEAVES WITH A NASTY ASS ATTITUDE AND HE WALKS OUT THE DOOR. SO I TEXT HIM A FEW HOURS LATER ASKING HIM WHY HE LEFT LIE HE WAS MAD AT ME AND HE SAYS HES MADA T THE WHOLE WORLD SO WE GET INTO IT AND IM ALREADY CRYING CUZ IM NOT COMPLETLEY OVER THE WHOLE OTHER WOMAN SITUATION LAST NIGHT AND I DIDNT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO. HE TELLS ME THAT HES MAD CUZ IM UPSET AND YADA YADA YADA THEN HE ASKED ME IF I THINK HES CHEATIN ON ME. I DONT BUT WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO THINK IF THERE ARE OTHER WOME TEXTING HIM MIND U THINS IS THE SECOND TIME THIS HAPPENED FIRST TIME THE GIRL WANTED TO FIGHT ME CUZ I CONFRONTED HER AND WHAT TRIPS ME OUT IS THAT HE ALWAYS TRIES TO BE SO INNOCENT CUZ HE DID NT GIVE HER HIS NUMBER BUT I DONT CARE CUZ IF SHE WAS SO UNIMPORTANT WHY DID HE TAKE HE RCALL IN THE FIRST PLACE. WELL PLEASE GIVE ME SOME INPUT CUZ IM 7 MONTHS PREGNANT AND CONTEMPLATING LEAVING HIM

7 Comments on LADIES PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THIS SOUNDS LIKE

ourbabynumber6 - Tuesday, 25 Nov
I agree with Anesha also and don't stress your self out momma.

kamilah1 - Tuesday, 25 Nov
Anesha said it best sweetie!!! There is no need to stress yourself out!!! I wish you the best in everything positive that you do, know that the joy of the Lord is your strength.

JadesHotMom - Tuesday, 25 Nov
I <3 you

& u have my number hunii ;; so text as needed ;; I IM'ed you As per wtf I think on that scum!

Peytons Mommy! - Tuesday, 25 Nov
OMG im so sorry hun. My husband cheated on me before we were married but i told him if he ever does it again i would leave him. And i mean it too i would cause i just dont know if i could go through all that again. Its so hard to tell you what to do cause its your heart and your going to listen to all of us but you are going to make up your own mind on your own. But I stayed with my husband and we got through it and he tried to hide it from but i just told him if i found out that he was lying then i would leave him but if he told me the truth then I would work it out. Keep your head up and good luck. I wish you the best.

sakiyna - Tuesday, 25 Nov
if u have to go through he's stuff then u dont need to be with him...he knows what he can get away with and u have to ask ur self a question...when i find out,am i going to leave him? or am i just gonna cry and ask a thousands questions and just take whatever answer he gives u......then u call the other woman??????.....thats a no no......u know what he is doing u have all the proof,so just to let u know...he is going to keep doing him because its too easy,baby girl know what u deserve cause a dude isnt going to look out for u unless u look out for u(real talk)

Anesha - Monday, 24 Nov
This is definitely a predicament. You should not be calling and comfronting these women. Your man is the only one that owes you loyalty. They don't know you and don't owe you anything. I am not God so I would not be so confident to say he is cheating but you have to admit that his behavior is suspect. He does not even come across as trying hard to convince you that he is faithful. You know this guy better than us. Is he a liar? Did the woman on the phone say that he is her lover during all that arguing? You are pregnant and don't need to be going through all this drama. The part that irritates me is his apparent lack of care for you. Why would he leave you upset like that when he needs to be proving to you that he is faithful? If I were in this situation I would tell him to "hit you up when he feels like being an honest man. Maybe I will or maybe I won't be available. You take that chance. Tell him you deserve better and that you will be just fine without him. " If he does not work to keep you then let him go and lay down some lines while you are at it. No women should be calling his phone if they are not related. He is on thin ice and shouldn't even entertain his true female friends while he is trying to patch things up. Let him know that you are not stupid and not his doormat. Be strong honey cuz men come a dime a dozen. And maybe you feel like you don't want any man but him but if he is not willing to fight to keep you then he is not worth keeping. Let these nasty women have him. They deserve him if he would cheat and lie to his pregnant girlfriend. I am sorry that you are going through this at such a fragile time in your life. Thank God that you have a supportive mother.

JulianasMommy - Monday, 24 Nov
Honestly...this is just me and how i feel but I would leave him.

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