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Hi Gals, Just wanted to do a little venting today. Well as you can see I am now in my fertile time. Of course during this time I will try to initiate BD'ing more than any other time of the month...which I guess is bad on my part. I try to get my husband to be involved with this process just as much as I am, but its so hard. He seems to not take it very seiously and last night even said "im just not feelin it". Its so frustrating for me since NOW is the time and to add to this...he left for a business trip this morning to Pheonix so there goes today and tomorrow. I am so frustrated because I do have endometriosis and every month I go without being on the pill or giving into my doctors reccomendation to do hormone treatments to put me into temporary early memopause...I am in extreme pain! So when we go without even trying...I not only left w/o hope but the pain as well. I think because we have been trying for 4 years he stopped taking this serious...and I feel like I am more serious than ever! I dont know how to feel about this sitation but resentful. I just feel sad today like this will never happen...after 4 years why would it? maybe I should just do the treatments and forget the whole thing? I am almost 30 and my husband is 32 and I think thats why Im feeling even more pressure than ever. There just doesnt seem to be any options for me, adoption is so expensive ($20,000-$30,000) and fertility treatments, specifically IVF is about the same. Anyways, thanks for letting me get that off my chest...wheew!
5 Comments on DH and 4 years
Jelly27 - Friday, 3 Oct
It is a hard situation when both partners are not on the same page. Fertlity treatments are expensive. But they usually dont' start you out with IVF. Surprisingly IUI's are much less expensive. What puts IUI's over the thousands are the meds and not the actual procedure. So think about it. It might be a better option then trying and getting the dissapointment each month. Can't say the dissappointment won't go away, to be honest it's much worse to pay for it and go through the process only to get a BFN, but it's worth the effort, if it ends in a positive!
baby-griffin - Thursday, 2 Oct
Aww reading this I just wanted to give you a huge hug. Of course I could see why you would feel this way. It sure is not easy, I started in this thinking that it was going to be super easy, seeing so many people getting pregnant without even trying, was I ever wrong! It breaks my heart that there are so many women out there who don't even think and have children that they hardly take care of and then there are others who would do everything possible to have just one child. Keep your chin up, there are many possibilities out there, just got to get all the info and make a decision. Baby dust to you girl.
blee71377 - Thursday, 2 Oct
I'm, so sorry you're feeling sad! I wish I could say somthing magical that would take away these yucky feelings you are having. I would suggest, unless you already have, have a nice heart-to-heart talk with your DH. Maybe he's forgotten how badly you want this.
Splenda - Thursday, 2 Oct
I will pray for you!!
stephbmw - Thursday, 2 Oct
Awwww sweetheart i feel for you i really, really do i don't know how youv'e kept going for four years with no success but i suppose you just have to keep on going, i am so sorry you are in so much pain i hate it when people are upset and i can totally understand how you are feeling when nows your fertile time and your hubby either doesn't want to bd or goes away on buisness and stuff's up your chances yet another month don't men understand how important these things are to us? i honestly don't think so. I really hope your gonna be ok i wish you all the luck in the world and i know it doesn't seem like it now but very soon life's going to turn around and you will be blessed with a beautiful baby i promise take care xxx
| 02-10-2008 - DH and 4 years |  My mood while writing this blog:Frustrated/Sad |
Hi Gals, Just wanted to do a little venting today. Well as you can see I am now in my fertile time. Of course during this time I will try to initiate BD'ing more than any other time of the month...which I guess is bad on my part. I try to get my husband to be involved with this process just as much as I am, but its so hard. He seems to not take it very seiously and last night even said "im just not feelin it". Its so frustrating for me since NOW is the time and to add to this...he left for a business trip this morning to Pheonix so there goes today and tomorrow. I am so frustrated because I do have endometriosis and every month I go without being on the pill or giving into my doctors reccomendation to do hormone treatments to put me into temporary early memopause...I am in extreme pain! So when we go without even trying...I not only left w/o hope but the pain as well. I think because we have been trying for 4 years he stopped taking this serious...and I feel like I am more serious than ever! I dont know how to feel about this sitation but resentful. I just feel sad today like this will never happen...after 4 years why would it? maybe I should just do the treatments and forget the whole thing? I am almost 30 and my husband is 32 and I think thats why Im feeling even more pressure than ever. There just doesnt seem to be any options for me, adoption is so expensive ($20,000-$30,000) and fertility treatments, specifically IVF is about the same. Anyways, thanks for letting me get that off my chest...wheew!
5 Comments on DH and 4 years
Jelly27 - Friday, 3 Oct
It is a hard situation when both partners are not on the same page. Fertlity treatments are expensive. But they usually dont' start you out with IVF. Surprisingly IUI's are much less expensive. What puts IUI's over the thousands are the meds and not the actual procedure. So think about it. It might be a better option then trying and getting the dissapointment each month. Can't say the dissappointment won't go away, to be honest it's much worse to pay for it and go through the process only to get a BFN, but it's worth the effort, if it ends in a positive!
baby-griffin - Thursday, 2 Oct
Aww reading this I just wanted to give you a huge hug. Of course I could see why you would feel this way. It sure is not easy, I started in this thinking that it was going to be super easy, seeing so many people getting pregnant without even trying, was I ever wrong! It breaks my heart that there are so many women out there who don't even think and have children that they hardly take care of and then there are others who would do everything possible to have just one child. Keep your chin up, there are many possibilities out there, just got to get all the info and make a decision. Baby dust to you girl.
blee71377 - Thursday, 2 Oct
I'm, so sorry you're feeling sad! I wish I could say somthing magical that would take away these yucky feelings you are having. I would suggest, unless you already have, have a nice heart-to-heart talk with your DH. Maybe he's forgotten how badly you want this.
Splenda - Thursday, 2 Oct
I will pray for you!!
stephbmw - Thursday, 2 Oct
Awwww sweetheart i feel for you i really, really do i don't know how youv'e kept going for four years with no success but i suppose you just have to keep on going, i am so sorry you are in so much pain i hate it when people are upset and i can totally understand how you are feeling when nows your fertile time and your hubby either doesn't want to bd or goes away on buisness and stuff's up your chances yet another month don't men understand how important these things are to us? i honestly don't think so. I really hope your gonna be ok i wish you all the luck in the world and i know it doesn't seem like it now but very soon life's going to turn around and you will be blessed with a beautiful baby i promise take care xxx
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