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13-9-2009 - just thoughts bout TTC

My mood while writing this blog: not sure kinda depressed

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I've had mood here recently. I dont know why they have all of a sudden showed up. I find myself depressed as hell. I want another baby so badly. especially a little girl. I feel empty. I know the hubby and i should wait for now until we are settled down and the kids are older and im older and actually plan everything but i feel like i cant wait.. like im supposed to have another baby soon. and yes i know if it is supposed to happen it will but idk.. i dont think i really know how to explain it. i think i kinda sound like a nut right now for wanting another baby with my kids being so young. but i really have no one to talk to in my life bout this. I really dont think they will understand so im writing this in hopes that someone on here will understand how i feel bout it. My hubby will be switching from Army National Guard to the Active Army very soon. im not sure what to do right now. im so confused. i know that all my family would prolly call me stupid for gettin pregnant again so soon. and prolly most people on here too. but i think i could handle it. .. oh bleh.. im done for now im getting sleepy. i think i shall go lay down. nite.

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3 Comments on just thoughts bout TTC


melissabkr - Thursday, 17 Sep
hi i was just passing by and for some reason stop here,i am an army wife as well and i know that feeling of wating a new whole pregnancy i am there right now,i have 1 beautiful boy,21 months old and dying for a little girl, i have wait all this time b/c i always knew that i want my kids to be close in age at least 2 years and 1/2 apart,so for months i've been doing researches about natural gender selection and you wont believe how many people is doing this,there's soooo many things that can increase your chances to get the baby you want, you have to read about it,come up with the plan you think will work better for you and prepare may take a few months and a little money (for supplements) but there will be more chances for you i think is worth it to give it a try and that would give you some time in between your kids,well good luck and if you want to talk more about it just send me msg...

Baby-Beiler - Monday, 14 Sep
hey i dont think you are crazy! i missed being pregnant and i figured out what i missed the most about my daughter is that she got big and independant and she didnt need me anymore and didnt cuddle all the time anymore... so that was it... i got pg with baby 2... lol so i know how you are feeling

mommyof2in10 - Sunday, 13 Sep
I don't think you are crazy for feeling this way at all. More than wanting another baby, you probably just miss being pregnant. You were basically pregnant for 2 years since you got prego so soon after having your first little boy. Your mind and your body are so used to being pregnant, that you literally do feel empty inside. You should not feel bad for missing pregnancy, or for even wanting another baby. However, you should definitely wait until the time is right. You are still very young, and there will be plenty of time to have more babies. Why not take a little time to just enjoy your boys? This way if you decide to have another baby in a year or so, you will have that much more time to devote to the new baby. Sometimes I feel the same way as you do right now. Aiden is 14 months old, and everyday he needs me less and less. I am beginning to miss that tiny little baby that depended on me for every little thing. I just had to realize that now is not the right time. I need to finish school first. I really hope that this advice helps!