20-1-2009 - Bitchy this morning!

My mood while writing this blog: pissy

It figures that stuff has to get on my last nerve in the last weeks of my pregnancy!

I'll start if off like this and try to make it simple.. My uncle passed away in mid December, An uncle that I was not close with in the least, He was living with my Grandma and my Mom, For years he lived with my Gram. Anyway.. I won't go into why I didn't get along with him because the list would go on and on and on and on....

After he passed away my mom asked me to put his obit in the paper which I did for my mom and gram, Then my mom asked me to call a few places to get prices on cremation and things. Ok so I did, Well we found a place and since I am the only one with a computer between all of us. I had the cremation place e-mail me over the paperwork to be filled out in order to get this man cremated.. ok sounds simple.. It was from the start, Until I got the info back to the Crematory on a wed, Then I was under the assumption that my mom had sent a check to the crematory that same day, well no! She waited until the following Sat, Which delayed the picking up of the body.. So finally the check go there! It arrived at the wrong office but it got there.. UGh!!!

Ok here comes the best part, I get a call from the crematory lady all bitchy and frustated saying that the driver is out to get the body but they can't locate it!!!! R u flippen serious??? So I did my own little research and found out where he was.. I guess the hospital that my mom and gram had put on the paperwork of where his body was WAS wrong!!! OMG!!!

Now take it, this is all around the same time my Doc has put me on Couch REST!! REST my ass!!!!

So.. Finally they locate his body. ok.. But then i've got my 83 yr old grandma calling me and complaining and crying at hiw long her son has been in away from homw and in the mortuary and so on.. which is getting a little old and tiring at this point, I'd say because she has been doing it since he passed away in the hospital!!

Ok, so they have the body... Then why am I getting another call from the crematory??? and other e-mails?? Because my Grandma didn't sign one little flippen piece of paper, Wouldn't u know it's the piece of paper that gives authorization for his body to be cremated!!! All this time I had been talking with them back and forth on my Cell phone. My Mom was on her way over yesterday, Just to have a visit with her very pregnant daughter, when low and behold my grandma calls complaining that she called the crematory to get info on her sons remains.. And they wouldn't give her any info,... so she's angry at this point and gives the crematory my home phone #!!! I just wanna ring her little neck when I get a call from them after my mother arrives to visit... So a big mess again!! They ask me to get the paper signed.. Ok fine, I will get it signed and sent back to you when I can....

I express to my Grandma that I'm kinda upset that she gave them my number!! Her response* oh u won't hear form them again* yeah ok Gram! This morning I finally get a chance to sleep in till like 9 : 30.. Which never happens!! When my house phone rings and a message gets left on the machine.. Who could it be? Oh the lady fromt the cremation place!!!!!!!!! I called her back and gave her a piece of my mind, I told her I'm 39 weeks preg, 6 days away from my due date, I'm supposed to be on Bed Rest pretty much and I'm having to deal with all of this.. I asked her not to call my house anymore and when I get that paper back to her I will get it back to her,... She was very sorry she said.. so on and so forth.... I told her if she needed to get a hold of anyone to get a hold of my uncle's sister and mother.....

So now I have a headache which is the first sign that my BP is up and I had to vent!! The fact that I've been trying to help my family over and over again.. Is making me wanna pull my hair out that it's not all over with already!! Just flippen leave me alone!!! On top of this I feel like a total BITCH for acting like this! This is not me!!! I'm soooo passive usually it's unbelievable! I guess thats what i get for being so flippen passive...

Thanks for reading ladies...

On a happier note, I have my weekly appointment at 4pm and Doc will most likely check my cervix... So I will be excited if I am dilated :) We will see.. Hope everyone os having a better start to their day than I am :)