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 | Age: 38 Country: US Province/region: connecticut City: norwich Partner: keith Children: Yes, 6 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: toysRus cashier |
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well heres Koles birth story in addition to the one I wrote earlier, I went into what I thought was braxton hicks sunday the 14th around 2 pm, I kept having pains pretty strong, I kept drinking water, took a nap but they didnt stop. I decided to time my contractions around 8pm they were around 4 minutes apart, by 10 pm I'm thinking I'm going to go to bed maybe they will stop if I'min bed for the night. At this time I felt like I had to go poo every time I had a contraction figuring he was just very low. Trying to sleep in bed I slept in between contractions but woke up with each one they were painful and I had to breathe through them. I came downstairs at 1am and told hubby who was on his computer that he needs to call his friend I need to go get checked, maybe get some meds and come home by early morning. hubby stayed home with the girls and his friend, while my mom drove me to the hospital.( now mind you my boys were with their dad for the weekend so I havent seen them since friday afternoon. I called the court friday about this short calendar for monday to see if it was marked ready they said I didnt need to be there it wasnt marked ready to proceed.) I got to the hospital I lost my mucus plug, and was starting to bleed. they gave me a shot of steroid in my butt, ran an iv which only worked if my arm stayed out straight, checked to see if my water broke which it didnt at this time yet, and checked dialation, I was 3 cm already. I was given meds to stop my labor and was told I cant go home that I was being shipped by ambulance to a more advanced hospital. I sent my mom home so she can help with the kids monday when the boys came home. I traveled alone in the ambulance to the other hospital. they tried over a very bumpy highway to get 3 other iv lines to keep one that worked, missed every time, my contractions were every 2 minutes and I was crying/almost screaming cause they wouldnt give me anything for the pain. an hr later we were at the hospital I demanded something for pain and they aid you just got here we need to make sure the baby can handle pain meds first, I was rechecked and found to be 8 cm dialated. contractions were every 2 minutes. the other hospital before I was transported (tried) placing a foleycatheter the nurses had the nerve to say to me I think your 5 other kids ruined your anatomy because we cant locate your uretha! the ob came in and scratched up my whole area down there trying to place the catheter. but got it in, I was screaming because they obviously didnt know what they were doing. so at the new hospital they said they can remove it when they break my water finally something to make me happy. I was wheeled to the operating room placed in stirrups and they broke my 2 water bags, yup 2, one apparently to hold all of the baby and placenta in, and one that goes around the baby itself, strange but ok....I had polyhydraminos and literally flooded the bed, and the nurse with amnio fluid! they rechecked and said time to push...still no pain meds, contractions on top of each other but pushing felt like I can at least let go and push the pain awaysince I had no hubby no family I was alone I had a nurse talking in my ear, holding my hand and encouraging to push and find my happy spot....I kept my eyes closed tried finding an exotic island with a water fall, and pretty sunset to go to when pain was real bad.I pushed so hard felt like my body was pushing him out like when your in the middle of a bowel movement and its stuck but your body wants it out so it pushes for you..he arrived 7:59 am then they proceed to reach up and mess with the placenta. pulling massaging etc and had to push that out too. I wasnt able to see him right away he was wisked off to nicu.that evening in the hospital I got to go down and visit him, touch him but not hold him. he was so perfectly pink and plump and found he basically breathing on his own but with forced air, and sugar needs to level out. my mom called me that night to tell me God awful news like I needed that right...I had to give birth with no family or hubby there, and now I get news that court did take place monday and that my ex did win sole temporary custody of my boys! I immediatly started screaming and crying....my ex said hes going to get court papers to come in MY HOME and remove my sons belongings! and that I am not to be contacted by either school about the boys at all since he got custody! hubby and his friend drove up to see me with the girls and i told them what hapened. so now I need to come up with 250.00 for my attorney to get my boys back! my 6 yr old hasnt seen me since friday of last week and was crying at my moms cause he missed me, this is killing me! please keep my family in your prayers, I want my kids together in my home...I want my family in tact....
2 Comments on KOLES BIRTH
preggiefairy - Thursday, 18 Sep
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Wow what a story, I am terribly sorry to hear about your sons... try and keep possitive though, you need to look after yourself and your health so that you can fight for your boys! so rest and let your body heal a bit. Once again CONGRATS!!! and good luck! :-)
incubator - Thursday, 18 Sep
TammyJo-
Sorry to hear about the courts decision...I hope everything works out for you!
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well heres Koles birth story in addition to the one I wrote earlier, I went into what I thought was braxton hicks sunday the 14th around 2 pm, I kept having pains pretty strong, I kept drinking water, took a nap but they didnt stop. I decided to time my contractions around 8pm they were around 4 minutes apart, by 10 pm I'm thinking I'm going to go to bed maybe they will stop if I'min bed for the night. At this time I felt like I had to go poo every time I had a contraction figuring he was just very low. Trying to sleep in bed I slept in between contractions but woke up with each one they were painful and I had to breathe through them. I came downstairs at 1am and told hubby who was on his computer that he needs to call his friend I need to go get checked, maybe get some meds and come home by early morning. hubby stayed home with the girls and his friend, while my mom drove me to the hospital.( now mind you my boys were with their dad for the weekend so I havent seen them since friday afternoon. I called the court friday about this short calendar for monday to see if it was marked ready they said I didnt need to be there it wasnt marked ready to proceed.) I got to the hospital I lost my mucus plug, and was starting to bleed. they gave me a shot of steroid in my butt, ran an iv which only worked if my arm stayed out straight, checked to see if my water broke which it didnt at this time yet, and checked dialation, I was 3 cm already. I was given meds to stop my labor and was told I cant go home that I was being shipped by ambulance to a more advanced hospital. I sent my mom home so she can help with the kids monday when the boys came home. I traveled alone in the ambulance to the other hospital. they tried over a very bumpy highway to get 3 other iv lines to keep one that worked, missed every time, my contractions were every 2 minutes and I was crying/almost screaming cause they wouldnt give me anything for the pain. an hr later we were at the hospital I demanded something for pain and they aid you just got here we need to make sure the baby can handle pain meds first, I was rechecked and found to be 8 cm dialated. contractions were every 2 minutes. the other hospital before I was transported (tried) placing a foleycatheter the nurses had the nerve to say to me I think your 5 other kids ruined your anatomy because we cant locate your uretha! the ob came in and scratched up my whole area down there trying to place the catheter. but got it in, I was screaming because they obviously didnt know what they were doing. so at the new hospital they said they can remove it when they break my water finally something to make me happy. I was wheeled to the operating room placed in stirrups and they broke my 2 water bags, yup 2, one apparently to hold all of the baby and placenta in, and one that goes around the baby itself, strange but ok....I had polyhydraminos and literally flooded the bed, and the nurse with amnio fluid! they rechecked and said time to push...still no pain meds, contractions on top of each other but pushing felt like I can at least let go and push the pain awaysince I had no hubby no family I was alone I had a nurse talking in my ear, holding my hand and encouraging to push and find my happy spot....I kept my eyes closed tried finding an exotic island with a water fall, and pretty sunset to go to when pain was real bad.I pushed so hard felt like my body was pushing him out like when your in the middle of a bowel movement and its stuck but your body wants it out so it pushes for you..he arrived 7:59 am then they proceed to reach up and mess with the placenta. pulling massaging etc and had to push that out too. I wasnt able to see him right away he was wisked off to nicu.that evening in the hospital I got to go down and visit him, touch him but not hold him. he was so perfectly pink and plump and found he basically breathing on his own but with forced air, and sugar needs to level out. my mom called me that night to tell me God awful news like I needed that right...I had to give birth with no family or hubby there, and now I get news that court did take place monday and that my ex did win sole temporary custody of my boys! I immediatly started screaming and crying....my ex said hes going to get court papers to come in MY HOME and remove my sons belongings! and that I am not to be contacted by either school about the boys at all since he got custody! hubby and his friend drove up to see me with the girls and i told them what hapened. so now I need to come up with 250.00 for my attorney to get my boys back! my 6 yr old hasnt seen me since friday of last week and was crying at my moms cause he missed me, this is killing me! please keep my family in your prayers, I want my kids together in my home...I want my family in tact....
2 Comments on KOLES BIRTH
preggiefairy - Thursday, 18 Sep
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Wow what a story, I am terribly sorry to hear about your sons... try and keep possitive though, you need to look after yourself and your health so that you can fight for your boys! so rest and let your body heal a bit. Once again CONGRATS!!! and good luck! :-)
incubator - Thursday, 18 Sep
TammyJo-
Sorry to hear about the courts decision...I hope everything works out for you!
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