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24-6-2009 - New diagnosis

My mood while writing this blog: Fearful of the worst

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We found out at 18wks 5dys that our baby has mild ventriculomegaly. Measurements are 12.5 on both sides the third ventricle was normal. I am so scared for what this will mean for us and our baby. We are still healing from a loss in Dec at 19wks. So to here this news was devestating to us. I have 3 older children a boy who is almost 11, a gilr who is 5 1/2, and a gilr whos is almost 3, and they baby we lost was a boy. I ahave done alot of research about this condition and it all scares me to death. I was offered the amino but chose not ot because of my own fear of loosing another baby. I know women get them alot but I am so fearful right now that I am a basket case. I have done everything right with this pregnancy and yet I feel like I still failed my baby. The u/s tech told us we are having a girl but I am not convinced. I have laways been right when it came to just knowing the sex of my babies long before we could find out and I think boy and always have still do. She took such a quick look that I myself did not even get a good look. I am all over the place with how I feel. I am so glad I found the ventricuolmegaly board as it has helped me see I am not alone. I am preparing myself for the worst and hoping for the best. I will keep reading the stories on the board as a way to comfort myslef and I will update as much as I can. Thank You for reading my crazy jibberish.

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