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09-8-2008 - Discouraged

My mood while writing this blog: Shock, numb, sad.... :(

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AF came today, two days early to boot. I was completely shocked. I don't understand. I really thought this was our month. I even used the OPK's. I really can't describe what I'm feeling right now. I feel like giving up because you all know how hard this is. I know it will happen but the frustration and disappointment is a lot to bear. I just don't know... thanks for listening.

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6 Comments on Discouraged


ourfirstone - Monday, 11 Aug
I'm sorry sweetie. Try and relax...I know that is hard. I'm praying for you. It will happen in His time....... Keep your chin up! Lots of love and hugs to you! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

lulu99 - Sunday, 10 Aug
hi girl...i am sorry. But stay positive, plan a trip, a weekend trip with your hubby next month. Be relaxed, don't think about it, enjoy the trip and everything that comes along the two of you being together alone... and that's a good way to keep your thoughts centered (plus you can have relaxed sex many times a day!! hahah!). Be positive, Your baby will come. Remember... we can always plan things but it's up to the big guy for these type of things to happen. I will continue to pray for you... and.. smile! You have a blessed marriage, family, friends... you have a lot of beautiful things in your life. The baby will come soon...and this will all be in the past. Hug!

roosa - Sunday, 10 Aug
Oh sweetie, I am so very sorry it wasn't your month. I truly understand your disappointment and feeling like you just want to give up. I have had that feeling many, many times. The day you get your AF is just SO low it is hard to think positive but I hope you will feel better and more positive in a couple of days. Praying for strength and comfort. Love, Karin

blessedbaby2be - Saturday, 9 Aug
Aww I am sorry girl, mine came as well but don't give up! It will happen for us just stay positive:-)

Rebekahs-mama - Saturday, 9 Aug
Oh stink, I wanted this soooooooo badly for you. I don't understand why conceiving has to be so hard! Isn't it what God intended for us to do? I just keep praying you will have that wonderful double line but it keeps illuding you. Are you seeing a doctor at all about all of this?

grexach - Saturday, 9 Aug
Oh, honey, I am so sorry this wasn't the month. I know you are feeling like "When is it going to happen for me!?" Each time AF arrives when you are TTC is like a punch in the stomach. Go enjoy a glass of wine and relax today. Don't give up; your bean is just around the corner...waiting for the best possible time to make its eagerly awaited arrival. As always, I am thinking about you and sending all my best wishes your way.