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05-9-2008 - What are we doing wrong??

My mood while writing this blog: Confused

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AF came today, a day early. I don't know what we are doing wrong; it's so hard for me to understand. TTC'ing is so hard. I want to scream! I have no idea what is going on with my body, all these late periods, now its early? I'm just sick of it. I have no idea when I ovulate even though I used the OPK's and I don't want to feel that we "have" to have sex at certain times to get pregnant; it's just not feeling natural.

If anyone has any advice, I'd appreciate it. Sorry to moan... I thought this may be our month since I did not obsess about it, but I guess not. Oh well, until next time.....thanks friends.

xoxo

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8 Comments on What are we doing wrong??


tabitha - Saturday, 6 Sep
Sorry to hear you are having so much trouble...All I can say is try and have sex every day starting 5 days after Af has gone and keep doing that till 3-4 days after you think you might have ovulated and see how you go..I know that can be a pain but it worked for me all times...Good luck hun. (((HUGS)))

roosa - Saturday, 6 Sep
Awww, sweetie, I am so sorry. I wish I had any advice for you but I don't. All I can say is I don't think you are doing anything wrong and that all we can do is try, hope and pray. I know it isn't easy though. I do however also think that we all react to TTC differently. Some get pregnant easily when they chart and BD on all the right days. For me it seemed my cycles got irregular whereas they have always been spot on with 28 days in the past. I still haven't had a regular cycle since my loss and have to just believe it isn't the right time but that the right time will come. Let's hang in there together, my friend. Love, Karin

LizDW - Friday, 5 Sep
Well, I was going to order OPKs but I decided to try another method first. We BD-ed every other day from the day I got off my period until I started again, since I was having irregular period and had NO idea when I ovulated. And what do ya know, it worked for me. No calendar guessing games, no lines to decipher, just good old fashioned love making did the trick.

Rebekahs-mama - Friday, 5 Sep
Oh, I shed some tears for you today. I'm already emotional for obvious reasons, but even though God finally answered our prayers I still deeply remember the pain of not being able to conceive. My heart is truly with you and I know how enpty your arms feel everyday yas you wait for your baby to finally fill them. There's really nothing that can be of comfort and I'm so sorry.

You said you're looking for some advice and the only thing I can think of is charting. Have you recorded your temps and mucus on any sites like fertilityfriend.com? Doing that was the only way I knew when I ovulated...which varied from month to month and always seemed later in my cycle. It worked for me to become pregnant this time around and I know they design the chart to go hand in hand with your OPK's.

clairek - Friday, 5 Sep
hey there when i was trying to get preggo i started to baby dance the moment i saw a faint line instead of waiting for a solid line and it worked that month for me where on the other months when i waited for a solid line i didnt get preggo, does that make sense and good luck.xx

mandyd829 - Friday, 5 Sep
I completely understand. A year has gone by and still nothing for us. i don't know what we are doing wrong either.

lulu99 - Friday, 5 Sep
But the way, YOU LOOK GORGEOUS ON YOUR PROFILE PICTURE!!! Thanks for your comment, I still can't believe we're having a girl!

Don't worry or stress out. You know what I would do you in your position? Plan a trip with your husband.... don't think about TTC, just enjoy the trip. Plan it around your ovulating week...and just relax, enjoy and let the baby making miracle happen. Remember that the mind is EXTREMELY powerful and, the more you think about it, the harder it is.

Hug.

ourfirstone - Friday, 5 Sep
Lots of love to you....

XOXOXOXOXOXO