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16-4-2008 - Not a good week

My mood while writing this blog: depressed

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It's only tuesday night and i can't wait until friday. I'm having a crappy week so far. First my so called husband tells me he will not be giving me any money, bc he doesn't want to move out of base housing. That of course made me mad bc thats we had agreed on before i left new york beginning of march. so i told him i would consult with a lawyer. well i talked to legal asst. for the army and according to them he should already be paying 600$ a month just to support me. and he's not allowed to be living on post if i'm not there. so they'll make him move when he gets back from the field end of next month. so when i told him what they said he agreed that he would move out on his own. i also asked him if he could spare some of the 1200$ he would have for the next 2 weeks so i could go buy a stroller and a bassinett, he said no. he's not sure how much he'll need and he doesnt want to be left with no money. which i find very selfish but ok. then he tells me that we can get a crib,car seat, stroller and other stuff from his sister. i am not opposed to hand me down things at all, but this is our first baby, and he wants to borrow girl stuff for our boy??? makes no sense. then he tells me that i need to file for a divorce bc he's tired of all this back and forth and me getting him in trouble when it's not true. I'm sitting here trying to figure out how in the world i'm gonna support me and my baby after evan is born without his help. and knowing him i'll have to ask him for money... i wont make it finacially. i'm so fustrated and i just know that he's gonna find a way to be cheap and not give me any money.....how did i get myself into this mess? and to top it all off he said that since i can't pretend that all this hasn't happened between us, and be the old me he only wants to see the baby, and we could be friends or lovers.... i don't want that i want a husband, a family. this seperation was suppose to show him how to be an adult, but i think the single soldiers he hangs out with a filling his head with stuff. i guess i have to prepare to do this on my own, emotionally and financially. and to make the week even better my car is acting up :(.......when it rains it poors

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2 Comments on Not a good week


lyndseyk86 - Wednesday, 16 Apr
dont let him get u down hun, a mother can love their child enough for both parents! xxxx

clairek - Wednesday, 16 Apr
sorry to hear ur hubby is giving u more hassle and stress, be strong u will and evan will be just fine with the love and support from ur family.

loads luv