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YoungMummyToBe94 has 23 days to go and is now in week 36
	Age: 15 Country: Uk Province/region: Private City: Private Partner: Ed Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 14 Dec ,2009 Occupation: School
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27-5-2009 - About the father

My mood while writing this blog:
Ok

I just thought i'd take some time on writing my first blog, which is about if Ed is going to be a part of our child's future. Me and Ed have been together for almost 2years now and we had always been strong, when we decided to have sex for the first time we did use contraception but it split, you know it does happen sometimes, I first got symptoms a few weeks after and when I realised my period was late I thought I better take a test, so I did (well three actually) all came out positive. I was scared but happy that I could be a mum. When I first told Ed, I thought that he would stick by me like he always had done in the past, but I was wrong. We talked about options and he told me to have an abortion, I was completely against this even though I knew i'd be a young mum and it would be tough. After some arguments he said that he wanted nothing to do with me, and the baby. I only hope that he changes his mind throughout my pregnancy as I don't want my child growing up not knowing it's dad. So yes... that's all I suppose.. will be having an ultrasound in a few days, very excited and will tell you all how it went!

4 Comments on About the father

Tracey7 - Wednesday, 27 May
Ur story is so similar to mine im 32 wks and my babys daddy is 23 and did the exact same thing, told me 2 have an abortion an didnt want anything 2 do with my baby(mature for his age, right!?!), but he sort of came around to the idea when i got my first scan due 2 bleedin @ 12 weeks i txt him 2 let him knw an his reply was"thats good" an asked me to ring him, we talked an he was askin about everything, i also took a photo of the scan with my camera phone an sent it to him an things changed a bit since then he would txt an ask about things, and was thinkin about names too, he said he only said them things cuz he was shocked so mayb thats the same with ur babys daddy??? But i wouldnt get ur hopes up about him coming round to the idea just yet as i stil havent as i dont fully trust my bbys daddy to be around whenever my boy is born as hes let me down so many times an given me false hope,, i also like u want my baby to knw his daddy but i cant b sure of that happenin as its not my choice its his, an i hope he makes the right one i want him in my life not for me for my boy. Lately its me whos doin all the chasing telling him about appts, scans, etc were as b4 he always asked. . I hope ur bbys dad comes around=) cuz he wil b missing out but if he doesnt dont worry u could do a much better job without him :)! Best of luck an congratulations! xxX

Shelley- - Wednesday, 27 May
Hey, sorry to hear about ur fella but with any luck he'll get used to the idea & come round & if he doesn't then it's his loss & u will just have to be strong for ur new arrival. It will be hard but it can be done (a friend of mine gave birth @ 15 & she is a great Mum to a wonderful girl of 11 now) don't let anyone bring u down & I wish u all the best! Shelley.xxx

jennymomof3 - Wednesday, 27 May
If he doesn't want it now then he won't. Prepare to do this alone and it's not easy at your age. I hope you have family and a big support system....you'll need a lot of help.

tracy108 - Wednesday, 27 May
Hopefully he will come round especially when he sees the pic from the scan, if not you can do it alone! Hope it al works out for you.xx

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