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06-11-2009 - What\'s next?

My mood while writing this blog: :/ disappointed

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Well the dreaded AF came today. This one seems lighter than the first one I had after M/C. Hope this means I'm back to normal, whatever that is. Feeling kind of disappointed. I did use those stupid ovulation test kits as it worked the last time I got pregnant with my little angel who left me. Although, Im wondering how great those pee sticks really are? I looked on the box and they were to expire the following month so who knows if they were too old?

After this cycle, I don't think I'm going to bother with those pee sticks. I think it just stresses me out more which also makes it harder to conceive from what I understand. This time, I will try to relax and just try to BD everyday whether or not DH or I is tired. No excuses! Haha. I hate when people tell me to be patient and it will happen when you least expect it. BTW, all the people who have said these things to me already have kids and had them with no problem and some weren't even trying. I would've liked to say, "Shut the hell up, you don't know wth you're talking about!"Of course, I just stood there stupidly saying nothing.

Christmas is coming and it will be nice to be with family and have some time off so I can look forward to that and next month we will book our honeymoon for Jan or Feb. We got married Nov 2008 so I think if we put off a honeymoon any longer we wont get one. We did get married in Mexico, but wasnt like we had an extra week without the family like most people who do destination weddings have, so we never had time alone.We did go to Vegas in May but it isnt a place for romance lol. I have my heart set on a couples resort in Jamaica. I think this will be just what we need. A getaway just the two of us...

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3 Comments on What\'s next?


cita71 - Wednesday, 11 Nov
I think that is the best attitude, because I hear too that strressing or worrying too much about it it is not good. The stress hormones levels increase and somehow it makes conception even harder. I think is true because when I feel pg, I had decided just to chill and relax and my mind was busy with other things.Wow your honeymoon in Jamaica sounds like the place where I could just relax and enjoy... that would be awesome for the two of you. :)

pregnantnprayin - Friday, 6 Nov
Kerr~ I have to tell the best ovuation kits are the first response. They are great i used them will all my pregnancy and got preggo! Also I know you probly heard this b4 but dont do it everyday !! bad idea it lowers the sperm count so alot of women who do it everyday and get pregnant the quality of the sperm isnt good which sometimes dont stick. Heres what I did.. after losing my baby boy collin..Oed on 19th of aug I knew that I would but still teston the 17th i got a positive.we did th BD 17 18 19 and about a week later we were pregnant !!its always best to BD 2 days b4 and on the O day !I cant wait until you post i got my....BFP !!!! I hope you guys have a fun trip enjoy!hugzz Jen

nzgirl - Friday, 6 Nov
I'm sorry you got your AF. I got my first period on Thursday since my D&C, which was five weeks ago. DH and I aren't going to properly start trying again til after New Years, although we won't be taking any precautions before then either. I will start using the OPKs again in Jan as that's how I got pregnant last time. Good luck and try to stay positive (although I know it's easier said than done). Your honeymoon sounds awesome. Jamaica would be amazing!