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16-2-2010 - Need to vent...

My mood while writing this blog: angry & sad

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Hi all....I have some stuff on my mind and I really need to vent....I have no family or friends that give a hoot...Well, I have been sick since Monday...with headache, fever, sore throat, chills, body ache, runny nose...basically I feel like CRAP!! My 3 children are also sick...Well last night I felt really bad and I bf my daughter...but last night I just couldn't do it...she was sick too and was frustrated at the breast. I asked my bf to give her a bottle...although I know she doesn't like bottles, I thought if she was hungry enough she would take it...well, he is sooo inconsiderate. He said he was sick to and that he shouldn't have to do that because I am breastfeeding. He kept cursing under his breathe because the baby was crying and wouldn't go to sleep..and kept fussing at me to do something about it...keep in mind that I stay home full time with my kids and often feel like a single parent, am I wrong for wanting his help when I am sick? It makes me angry but also makes me sad that he doesn't have the patience to take care of his own daughter. Sometimes he forgets how old our kids are!!!!! How crazy is that!!! That proves he isn't with his children enough....I understand he has to make a living but I believe family is first. Theres always time for your children....Well, any advice, suggestions are welcome...I really need to get him more involved...

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1 Comments on Need to vent...


hannahe - Tuesday, 16 Feb
ya that is inconsiderate but it is more common for a man to be like that than a woman. even those of us who stay home all day and deal with it seem to have more patience than a guy who never sees them. it is just pent up stress from work carrying over . even my husband has had his days where he just doesnt want to help out. granted when im sick he helps more than normal. but im sorry you are feeling sick and like he doesnt help out much :(