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24-9-2008 - AF makes her entrance...

My mood while writing this blog: Sleepy

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Well Af arrived about 10 minutes ago right on time.I'm getting a little discouraged considering this will be our fourth month ttc after my mc. I think I'm broken. Seriously, it seems like everyone is preggers except me. My boyfriend doesn't even know what to say to me because he thinks he's not doing his job.We had a long talk and I reassured him that I am so happy to have him even if we never have babies.I am very blessed in every way. The thing that bothers me is my Af has been pretty regular every month. My fertility monitor shows that I have an Lh surge usually between cd17-cd22. I'm pretty sure I'm ovulating correctly. We bd on the right days.I don't know why it's not happening. I don't even get excited anymore in the 2ww because I'm just waiting for symptoms to start and they never do. We did the fertell at home male sperm test 2 days ago and it shows he has enough swimmers. We still want to get tested though because the specialists can find alot more out than we can just using that. Other than that, were finally settled in our new home and I'm learning to be a housewife,hehe. I lived in my own apartment for two years so it took a little while to get adjusted to living with someone new. I love him so much. I never thought I would meet someone so special. I've been in a few crappy relationships in the past but he confirms,that not all men are lying cheaters. Okay...well I have to get back to work. I just want to say thank you to all the ladies on here for providing support for one another and sending positive comments to me when I'm feeling down or fed up. You guys have been the best! Congrats to all the new BFP's!!! I have alot of people on my friends list that got theirs this month and want to wish them all beautiful, healthy pregnancies! Good luck to all my fellow ttc'ers, sending loads of baby~dust your way!! Wish me luck on ttc round 4!

Prettypreggo...girl I want to see a BFP this month! One of us better do something soon :)

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16 Comments on AF makes her entrance...


minkymoo78 - Thursday, 25 Sep
Try not to get disheartened. I know how hard it is, I really do but try and remain as positive as possible and I'm sure it'll happen for you. I fell pregnant after my 1st miscarriage 4 months later and then miscarried again and I'm now on my 2nd cycle since that miscarriage, I've been TTC for 2 years now with so luck so I know how you're feeling. sometimes you just feel like packing it all in don't you but we never will and we'll get there

tassy - Thursday, 25 Sep
Aww girl, i am soo sorry AF showed up for you.. i was so hoping and praying that you get yours this month, cos i know, that you and i, we are almost in the same boat and so i understand how you feel... Well, i beleive God is realy planning a very special baby for you, hence he's taking time creating it.. and i am sure that once he feels, the best is created, he wil bless you with it... So hang in there girl, it wil happen for you, keep your faith alive and continue the BD'ing... it wil happen when u have least expected it.. i ampraying for you Jess, and i am sending lots of baby dust your way...

roosa - Thursday, 25 Sep
Sorry that AF arrived. I know you must disappointed. And I know the feeling you have about being broken. I too feel like everyone else gets pregnant (also after a loss) but nothing happens for me. It just comes to show that although it feels as though everyone else gets pregnant, it isn't so. At least I am still here and can relate :) All the best sweetie! Love, Karin

tanya23 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
well yes it really is discouraging but here i am in my 12 month of trying and still no luck it just takes patience.

dawn1980 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
So sorry to hear about Stupid Ol' AF!! (I hate that bitch...lol) I too am going onto my 5th month of TTC, it's so unbelievably frustrating. I believe we're also doing everything right, OPK's & such. I should be O'ing any day now, hopefully this is the LAST time you see AF for a VERY LONG TIME! Best wishes!

proudmommyof2.. - Wednesday, 24 Sep
Awww... BOOOO on AF! Hey sweetie, I'm still cheering for you! I know it sometimes feels like it's never going to happen and then it does, so don't loose hope I know you and DH are just fine and you will get your BFP, and here's to it happening this time around! Keep me posted cos i'm rooting for you and can't wait when you give us the big news! Big Hugs!!!

skatrose - Wednesday, 24 Sep
Hey there! I'm sorry ugly AF has made her entrance. It isn't a bad idea to get checked out, to make sure all is well in your lady department. According to the statistics it's only 25 % chance every month, with perfectly timed intercourse and everything. But, also they say if you are charting like crazy and know when you ovulate and are doing everything right for 6 months ....and nothing, then it may be a good idea to check with a doc. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers definitely. What Mandyd829 said was so true. This month we didn't even try. We relaxed about everything since we were doing all the tests and stuff at the infertility clinic. And bam it happened. Although, I know that the last thing you can do is relax sometimes when you want a baby so badly. But, keep your chin up. And know that we've all been through or are going through it. Lots of luck hon!

firstmommy08 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
I'm sorry girlie!! It is wonderful that you have a great guy behind you.

Manny - Wednesday, 24 Sep
Sorry to hear Af showed up ! I know how you feel about everyone being pregnant but you ! I'm feel the same way everyone around me is getting pregnant but me! So you are not alone when you feel like that and I know it's hard! I wish you the best of luck and tons of baby dust this cycle!

BrandiH2007 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
Don't give up! I got my 1st BFP our second month trying, but it took up 7 months after my mc to get our second. Have you tried BDing every other day? I would try giving up all the testing for a month and BD EOD for the week before you O, the week of and the week after if you can. Best of luck to you, it will happen and I know how you feel.

2nd baby - Wednesday, 24 Sep
well im not prego either!
it took 8 months with my daughter- i haven't been on bc since we had her and she is a year old! so i don't know what my deal is either! it's been the same amount of time for us too!
we will see what happens!

baby1@38 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
Just be patient and keep trying....sometimes it can take up to a year to get pregnant. You have been pregnant before so it will happen again. Just don't stress about it that could keep you from getting pregnant...I believe it is very important for both of you to be relaxed and just let it come naturaly...Good luck....it will happen!!!

jenniel872000 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
My fingers are crossed for you! Next Month is your month!

aeh1980 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
I am sorry it is taking so long. It was four months after my m/c in March before I got pregnant again. Hopefully it won't be that long once we get the go ahead to try since this recent Aug. m/c. I will keep my fingers crossed for you :)

ladylocks02 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
fingers and toes crossed for TTC 4 yr be ok babe!! xx

mandyd829 - Wednesday, 24 Sep
i know its discouraging. I know how it can feel after a while we tried for a year with amiscarriage in between. 6 months after the miscarraige we decided we would do the testing he went for his and the urologist said he should be okay to make a bayb so it was my turn. i made the appointment to do blood on my 3rd day of my cycle and it never came. i think t was the fact that becasue we were doing the testing we really weren't trying that it happened. People used to tell me all the time stop trying blah blah blah. I hated hearing it. it just pissed me off. But they were right. The one time the pressure was off and we weren't paying attention it happened. Don't give up. You will get pregnant and you and hubby will will have a beautiful blessing. I know it seems unfair and its heartbreaking but i truly believe in god's timing. Yours will be here soon enough. I have faith that you will be blessed. you deserve it just as much as the rest of us.