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04-10-2009 - Need to vent. sorry.

My mood while writing this blog: upset

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So I just had a total freakout on my fiancee. We went out to look at a video camera which we are gonna use gift cards we got to buy. I am not working right now I get about 300 every two weeks from disability. Reguardless of this I am still getting my part of the bills paid on time. So we are at best buy and Jed decideds he wants to upgrade his computer to snow lepord. The software is 180 bucks. He has 12 bucks his account and i'm sure that his credit card is maxed out. I got a little pissed because his part of the bills are not paid yet and we still have things we need to get for the baby's room as well we have nothing to eat in the house, I mean nothing. He still has to get paid from my work he did at my parents house, that will be about 3,000 but he has yet to sumbit a bill to them and the work has been done for about a month. I keep telling him to get it done, but no. Then i suggested that we take that money and use it to pay one year of the baby's health insurence up front so we don't have to worry about it all year. He says that he is behind on child support( he has a 6 year old from an old girlfriend) and that he has to pay bills. So he puts this new software on a credit card that his mom gave him when we went to paris. I know shes gonna get mad and will just take the money out of his trust( which he does not get til 35). Sorry this is long btw. Anyway We get home and the dog has gotten into a pizza box which i had told jed to take outside to the cardboard area but instead he put the box inside another box in our living room and didn't tell me. LIKE ITS THAT HARD TO BRING A FUCKING BOX OUTSIDE! He is just sooooo lazy.He has no new work lined up so we have no idea when money will be coming in again and I have no income right now. But he doesn't care. He says being lazy is him and he is who he is. I'm already stressed out enough w/ this baby coming. But i feel he does not have his priorities straight at all. Our parents paid for almost everything in thr baby's room, crib, changing table, curtains, everything and anything else i've bought. he has not put in a dime. the firt month i was off work he paid all the bills himself. Sorry this is long, but i just am going crazy. he never offers to clean the house or just thinks to do it on his own, i am still doing everything. He doesn't care if the house is a mess. I just want this baby to come into a clean, loving house and be given everything he needs. But how can i do that with a fiancee who rather sit and watch tv all day rather than work. help. I don't want this stress. I don't need it.

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3 Comments on Need to vent. sorry.


adkinsrus07 - Friday, 16 Oct
Lol wow sounds like a man- luckily we are doing ok right now but just like you my doc is gonna write me a note so I can get out of work a few weeks early and Ive have been telling huby to keep spending down so we dont have to wory when Im on mat. leave and he still comes home with all sorts of MAN CRAP- the poor things they just cant help it- they are no good with money. Hang in there.

BabySaunders - Monday, 5 Oct
Sounds like my hubby except mine does work, he just doesn't help with ANYTHING in the house. Tell your man that if he's not working, then ALLLL the house stuff is HIS responsibility. Especially if you're on disability!!! He needs to be helping. You're very pregnant and it shouldn't be all on you.

lovingLayla - Sunday, 4 Oct
i know exactly how you feel..just go read my blog...men just arent built the same anymore...they are straight punks who dont know what it feels like to work for anything

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