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27-6-2008 - OMG

My mood while writing this blog:
irritated,sad, mad all of them

OK so he finally emailed me but realy the only thing he said was when are you going back to California, and don't worry i will be sending you some money. He didn't ask how i was feeling or how the baby was doing or anything, OMG please tell me it is because of the raging hormones, I know he has alot on his mind with being in a war zone and all but if he had the time to say he will send me money and he couldn't ask how we are.EEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRR, that makes me so angry, And like i said i hope it is just the hormones. I know this was a shock to him and it was to me as well but it happened, I know what you are prob. thinking you should have used protection but i was on birth control i had the IUD in and i still got pregers. but that is besides the point, i just want him to be happy or excited or something. what should i do? should i say something to him about it or do i just let it go and wait till he gets home and see how he reacts when he sees the baby for the first time? Can someone please tell me what you think i should do. I am lost. I felt like i was doing it alone before but now that he made that comment i really feel like i am going at it alone. And it was so different with my exhusband he went to every apt and was there for everything so this is such a big difference for me. OMG i just want to rip out my hair and cry for days.

3 Comments on OMG

MommaLou - Tuesday, 22 Jul
I know it SUCKS.... but you just got to remember where he is & there are a million things going on around him. He may have meant to say more than he did, but thins get so rushed over there. He may have been trying to hurry so his buddy could e-mail his wife or something like that. They only get a limited amount of "free time" over there. It's hard (and only gonna get harder) but just remeber how much he loves you & that it's you he is fighting for. Plus, try not to compare him to the ex (espeacialy if he wasn't military). That's only gonna make it harder on you & your relationship. Anyways... sorry to sound like a know it all, just been there ya know. Just remeber how much you guys mean to 1 another, hold on to that and be strong. Don't pick apart what he says or doesn't say, just be glad top hear from him. And just know that even if the email just says "HI!" it's worth a million other words and he probably loast an hour of sleep just waiting in line to be able to say that much to you. Cuz any free time is also sleep time. Anyways... Sorry to ramble, hope I didn't upsaet you. Keep your head up! Let me know if you need anything!

alexy20 - Saturday, 28 Jun
Well you are carrying his child. You do have to say something i know theres alot on his mind but he also has to be there for you mentally and emotionally because hes not there physically. You both got pregnant you know you didnt get your self pregnant but do say it in a mean way just tell him that you would like it if he checked up on both of you and you need his support not just financally. If you need me im here for you

moms the word - Friday, 27 Jun
I have found that a lot of men who are deployed try to seperate themselves emotionally while they are in a combat zone. Many of my friends complain about how their husbands seem distant at times. I think it is a coping mechanism for them. They try not to think about what is going on at home as much cause they are so upset with not being able to be there and they need to focus on the task at hand which is staying alive so they can come home. Maybe that is what he is doing. Hang in there, I know it is tough but it is very tough for him too cause he can't be there for the appointments and he has no control over it. My heat aches for you cause I know how hurt you feel. War sucks and all these deployments are so hard on families. I am so sorry just try to be strong.

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