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15-7-2009 - please not again

My mood while writing this blog: sad, confused, angry

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I know that I have already posted most of what I am about to say, but this is just so I can vent for my own benifit. Today was my first ultrasound. I am 7w3d but the ultrasound tech said that I am only 6w. WTF??? Absolutely no way possible. I ovulated on CD17 - 3 days later than an 'average' person, but even that would mean that I am 7w. And I didn't implant late because I got my BFP at 10dpo (CD27). Even worse is that there is no heartbeat. The only hope that I have is that there was a fetal pole, yolk sac and gestational sac which were all normal. I am going to pick up the ultrasound film tomorrow, and I am hoping that the report can give me a better idea about what is happening. The sonographer (sp?) also said that she could see some haemmoraghing (sp?) in my uterus but I am not bleeding - has anyone else had this? I have googled but can't seem to find out much about it. So I am not really sure if a miscarriage is inevitable or if there is hope. Oh, and by the way, I hate the old ' Maybe your dates are out' bullsh*t.... I got that line with my blighted ovum and it was more than obvious that there was nothing in there. I just feel like we get fed all of this b/s to spare our feelings, but I just want the truth and not hold onto false hope. I feel like it is an insult. Ahhhh, vent over, maybe now I can get to sleep......

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13 Comments on please not again


HereComes4 - Thursday, 16 Jul
Have they done blood tests on you to measure your HcG levels? If those are still going up you might be ok. It's just going to be a waiting game for you until they do another ultarsound. When is is scheduled? Just hang in there...it's awful to have to wait. I've been there before so I know what you're gong through. Keep us up to date and I'll keep you in my prayers.

ourlittlehogi - Wednesday, 15 Jul
i'm so sorry.

Nikki Lee - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Awww I hope everything works out for you and your baby!!!!

kristymumof4 - Wednesday, 15 Jul
hi im so sorry but i also r going thro the same thing had scan wed and they told me i was 5 weeks and im ment to be 7 tomorrow so im not sure what is going on she said she could just see heart beat i have to go back in 2 weeks for another scan if i am only 5 weeks as she said i found out i was prg and i would have only been 2 weeks it dont add up dose it keep us posted as i will you on my bean as well good luck

mrsw - Wednesday, 15 Jul
I'm so sorry I hope all goes well.

military~mommy - Wednesday, 15 Jul
I am keeping you in my thoughts.

anna85 - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Sorry sweetie that you have to go through this! All my positive thoughts and prayers are with you and your little bean. I know that it is very hard and frustrating! xxoo

littlesunshine - Wednesday, 15 Jul
I am preying for you that everything is ok. Are they going to send you for another ultrasound or test you hcg levels to find out if it was high enough to see a heartbeat because if your hcg measures the same as your ultrasound then there is still hope. I really hope you dont have to go through a m/c again my thoughts are with you.

firsttimer - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Oh honey I'm sorry, I've been there twice and I agree enough of the bs. I had some bleeding showing on my scan but no actual bleeding. I had a missed miscarriage with that one. We all know our dates and know when they are too off, even if the hosp tries to convince us otherwise. I do so hope things are different for you but the waiting is so hard. I was told to remain neutral(!). Try that I foundit really worked for me NOT!!!


ryleighsmom - Wednesday, 15 Jul
I think if you want the truth, that is exactly what happened to me with my last miscarriage, everything good at 8 weeks, but measuring small, and no heartbeat...I hope for your sake that the turnout is different, and I am praying you get the outcome you so deserve.

BabySaunders - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Ya when I lost my baby they told me my dates were off. I had been tracking my info for so long so I knew they were crazy. The only thing I can say is that every baby doesn't grow according to how we think it should, so give your baby a chance and maybe it will have a growth spurt.

hopefully3 - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Ahh hun! Everything is going to work out... I will keep you any your little one in my prayers... Stay positive! I know it is frustrating and very hard to deal with! If you need to talk I am here!

larryslady - Wednesday, 15 Jul
Everything will befine, just keep faith!