21-5-2008 - Birth Control

My mood while writing this blog: Relaxed

I am so frustrated, I am pretty sure I do not want anymore children but I can not afford to have my tubes tied and not sure than I NEVER want another one. My husband will not have a vesectomy, he has way to much testosterone, (he thinks he will no longer be a man:)) He also refuses to use a condom as he says he can't feel anything . Ok, I can't have a copper iud because I had one for 3 years and It gave me a 9 day period every 2-3 weeks and caused me to be anemic. I also tried the hormonal iud and birth control and I became severly depressed.My husband and I tried spermacide the other day and it was the worst! It felt all soapy, too wet and ITCHY! So now what? I told my husband he is not getting anything from me until we find reliable birth control and now our relationship is suffering! I am so frustrated!