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So, tomorrow is my big ultrasound day!!! i am soooo unbelieveably excited I can't even express it in words!!! i have been asking my boyfriend for 4 weeks now to talk to his manager and tell him he needs 2 hours off to come with. He PROMISED on everything that he would. I found out that he waited until 2 days ago to ask off and his manager said no. I couldn't do anything but cry and be upset with him because in my thinking, i figure if it was important to him he wouldve asked a lot sooner...is it just stupid for me to be upset with him or am i right? UUGH i just really really reallllllllllllllly wanted him to experience this with me ....
7 Comments on Should i be upset?
darrius mommy - Friday, 27 Feb
I think you gave him more than enough time to get it off but let me tell ya with my fiance he didnt really get into the whole pregnancy intill about 25 weeks, when he could feel see and hear the baby himself, So dont expect to much out of you man for now b/c belive it or not they are jelous that we are expierencing all of this and they have to wait the last couple of months to expierence what we have been for months!!
mena - Thursday, 19 Feb
I am so sorry to hear that you have to go by yourself to you dr appointment. I know how important it is to have his support. But I think we all have to realize that men see things different than us. What we see as very important they see it as just another thing. So I wouldn't take it too bad, he's just a guy. Stay positive and just that tomorrow will be a Happy day.
AlisaB99 - Monday, 16 Feb
Wow, that's pretty sad that he would do that, especially since it means so much to you and it is his baby too. I know how you feel though, my hubby missed our appointment, but he was out of town with work and couldn't make it, so he's forgiven. It's truly sad that he is going to miss out on such a great experience, but you should enjoy the appointment yourself. Sometimes us women can't explain why our men do such things, but they are men and sometimes I don't think they really realize what they are missing. Take care and good luck tomorrow!
ITALIANSHORTY - Monday, 16 Feb
Don't be upset....just think, now you can figure a cute way to tell him if its a boy or girl. Play games with his head...lol. Torture him a little when he trys to guess and smile....and give him a "MAYBE". I want to go alone to tell my DH the way i want to tell him. hes a cubs fan and I want to get an outfit for him to open, either a girl or boy one for the team. It will be the first thing we bought for the baby.
Kjaysgurl - Monday, 16 Feb
i think you have every right to be upset! but just know that you are MORE upset because you are prego and although he's gonna miss seeing the first sight of your baby, he's still gonna be there. I know my next u/s is tomorrow and my bf can't come...and as much as that sux you can't let it ruin your mood. Just think positive...at least he's working, right?!?! it could be worse, he could come to everything but not have a job and not be supporting you and your baby. give yourself time to calm down but expalin to him that it really means a lot to you for him to be there and if you have another u/s it would be great if he could make it to that one.
AimeeH - Monday, 16 Feb
i'm so sorry hun...i think you gave him more than enough time to try to get off work...men can be such jerks! it is ashame though that he will miss out on such an awesome experience :(
klo0426 - Monday, 16 Feb
Sorry to here, but you're not the only one this has happen too. For my first ultrasound my baby's father was suppose to be there also and he couldn't get off work.....he waited to long to ask also. I was upset and disappointed. But his mom came with me.....it wasn't the same but I wasn't alone. He ended up coming along for my second, then it became real to him, to bad it took an additional 6 weeks for him him to see his child.
No matter if you go alone or have someone with you, take that momment in.......nothing will ever take the place of seeing your baby and seeing the heatbeat. It has been the greatest thing that has happen to me during this pregnancy. Good luck
| 16-2-2009 - Should i be upset? |  My mood while writing this blog:down but excited! |
So, tomorrow is my big ultrasound day!!! i am soooo unbelieveably excited I can't even express it in words!!! i have been asking my boyfriend for 4 weeks now to talk to his manager and tell him he needs 2 hours off to come with. He PROMISED on everything that he would. I found out that he waited until 2 days ago to ask off and his manager said no. I couldn't do anything but cry and be upset with him because in my thinking, i figure if it was important to him he wouldve asked a lot sooner...is it just stupid for me to be upset with him or am i right? UUGH i just really really reallllllllllllllly wanted him to experience this with me ....
7 Comments on Should i be upset?
darrius mommy - Friday, 27 Feb
I think you gave him more than enough time to get it off but let me tell ya with my fiance he didnt really get into the whole pregnancy intill about 25 weeks, when he could feel see and hear the baby himself, So dont expect to much out of you man for now b/c belive it or not they are jelous that we are expierencing all of this and they have to wait the last couple of months to expierence what we have been for months!!
mena - Thursday, 19 Feb
I am so sorry to hear that you have to go by yourself to you dr appointment. I know how important it is to have his support. But I think we all have to realize that men see things different than us. What we see as very important they see it as just another thing. So I wouldn't take it too bad, he's just a guy. Stay positive and just that tomorrow will be a Happy day.
AlisaB99 - Monday, 16 Feb
Wow, that's pretty sad that he would do that, especially since it means so much to you and it is his baby too. I know how you feel though, my hubby missed our appointment, but he was out of town with work and couldn't make it, so he's forgiven. It's truly sad that he is going to miss out on such a great experience, but you should enjoy the appointment yourself. Sometimes us women can't explain why our men do such things, but they are men and sometimes I don't think they really realize what they are missing. Take care and good luck tomorrow!
ITALIANSHORTY - Monday, 16 Feb
Don't be upset....just think, now you can figure a cute way to tell him if its a boy or girl. Play games with his head...lol. Torture him a little when he trys to guess and smile....and give him a "MAYBE". I want to go alone to tell my DH the way i want to tell him. hes a cubs fan and I want to get an outfit for him to open, either a girl or boy one for the team. It will be the first thing we bought for the baby.
Kjaysgurl - Monday, 16 Feb
i think you have every right to be upset! but just know that you are MORE upset because you are prego and although he's gonna miss seeing the first sight of your baby, he's still gonna be there. I know my next u/s is tomorrow and my bf can't come...and as much as that sux you can't let it ruin your mood. Just think positive...at least he's working, right?!?! it could be worse, he could come to everything but not have a job and not be supporting you and your baby. give yourself time to calm down but expalin to him that it really means a lot to you for him to be there and if you have another u/s it would be great if he could make it to that one.
AimeeH - Monday, 16 Feb
i'm so sorry hun...i think you gave him more than enough time to try to get off work...men can be such jerks! it is ashame though that he will miss out on such an awesome experience :(
klo0426 - Monday, 16 Feb
Sorry to here, but you're not the only one this has happen too. For my first ultrasound my baby's father was suppose to be there also and he couldn't get off work.....he waited to long to ask also. I was upset and disappointed. But his mom came with me.....it wasn't the same but I wasn't alone. He ended up coming along for my second, then it became real to him, to bad it took an additional 6 weeks for him him to see his child.
No matter if you go alone or have someone with you, take that momment in.......nothing will ever take the place of seeing your baby and seeing the heatbeat. It has been the greatest thing that has happen to me during this pregnancy. Good luck
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