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I guess things has gotten so bad that I don't know where to start. My daughter's father (Rodney), who was my fiance...we are not together anymore. I had to end it with him for good. I don't understand why he turned out the way he is now. Lily is now 5 months old and her father is not a good father to her. Ok....I will try to explain clearly why he hasn't been a good father. Rodney & my job has cut down bad, but I have two jobs and he only has one. I also go to school and plus taken care of a baby...and all he is doing is working part job--ONE JOB. So I am doing everything!!! Our pay check is cut down...but that's not much of a problem for me since I make more money then he does. So he only works 4 days a week and 3 days he doesn't work.
My daughter is with me...I work Monday-Sunday...in the morning and at night and I take two classes. The days that I do not work in the morning are Monday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday. But I work at night on those nights....so I always tell him that he needs to see his daughter and visit her. His answer? No.......so instead of spending time w/ his daughter, he spends with his friends...who aren't truly his friends. The crowds he hangs out are not good. He never used to smoke a lot of hookah, weed, nor drink, and now he does. It bugs me...and he keep telling me he loves me and that it's his get away. You know what I told him? F*CK YOUR GET AWAY, HOW THE HELL DO I FEEL? BUT IM NOT DOING DRUGS TO GET AWAY FROM MY JOB AND THE RESPONSIBILITIES! So that's when I ended it good with him.
While all of this was happening, my ex DeAndre has been talking to me and comfortating me. He is in the military and is stationed in Hawaii. He actually came home last week to visit me. While he was here, he spend most of his time with me and I enjoyed every minute of it. And I am so happy that he came home...he adores my daughter. He took care of her last Thursday for me while I went to work. He called my office and said "SHE TOOK A BIG DUMP ON ME!" LoL....I thought it was pretty funny. We took her to the pool on Thursday too after I was off work. She enjoed the pool and didn't even complain! Everyone was surprised a 5 month baby loves the pool. She is a good baby...and that is why I don't understand why her own father doesn't want anything to do with her.
But I am glad that someone else does...and him and I are together. We have been talking a lot about getting together and marriage while the drama has been going on with me and my ex...but I never had the courage to do it. So finally....I did. I have known him since I was 16 years old...and I will be 21 June 5, 2009....I'M FINALLY LEGAL FOR GOOD! :)
So I hope everything works out with me and my new guy....he really made me change my mind about guys...he proved to me he could do it and could take care of my daughter and me. And I am so glad to have him in my life. I will fight every battle to get rid of Rodney.....and I will fight full custody over her because I do not want an unstable father who will be doing drugs in front of her....I never though he would turn out the way he is....and I don't even feel bad for him.
He is the last person I am worried about...my only concern is my daughter & myself.
6 Comments on Bad father...but another man comes along and takes over his Job
momnthemaking05 - Wednesday, 23 Sep
omg girl i know how you feel. My daughters father and I are currenly not in a relationship. we've been together for almost 6 years. He is sorta the same way. we live together and he gets to see her everyday, BUT he is so far from involved in helping to care for her its rediculous. He is 21 but behaves like a 16 year old. I mean granted yes he works very hard and has little time for himself, but neither do i but i give as much of, if no all of my time to my baby girl. Instead of coming home to take over and help me with her he would rather run around aaaallll night getting high and what not and a number of other annoying childish things. It got so bothersome to the point were i would ride his ass every night about what he doesnt do and him being him cant handle the truth so at this moment we are not together. It just difficult because i know he cant do anything for me or our child right now and i need to let him go and separate myself from him, but unfortunately im a victim of stupid love and i find myself back and forth with him...sooo endless drama on this end. It funny how like you i have an ex that just recently popped up in my life again. i was very much in love with this guy when we were together but he was reall strung up in drugs, etc and a whle bunch of other things and now he is back talking about me being the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with and how he will take care of me and my daughter with no prob (he has a WONDERFUL paying job ;-) lol) and all that good stuff and that is exactly what i want BUT im not ready to jump from this relationship right into another plus i still have to get to know the person that he is today, ya know? sorry that was long, i had to share my story with ya girl cause i can totally relate!! i hope everything works out wth everything though. Hows ur little one by the way :-)
Nickybaby - Tuesday, 5 May
WOW GIRL ALOT OF DRAMA HAS BEEN HAPPENING I SEE. LONG TIME NO TALK I MISS YA IM SO GLAD BABY IS DOING WELL...THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY IS FUCK HIM..TRUST YOU ARE A STRONG ENOUGH WOMEN TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD ALONE...BUT JUST MAKE SURE THIS NEW GUY IS WAT YOU REALLY WANT BEFORE YOU JUMP TO FAST IN ANOTHER REALATIONHIP K...JUST REMEMBER HE IS AN EX HIMSELF...ASK YOURSELF Y YOU GUYS BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE BECAUSE IF HE WAS ALL THAT HE'S SAID TO BE THEN YALL WOULDNT HAVE BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE... AND YOUR BABYGIRL WOULD HAVE BEEN HIS INSTEAD OF RODNEY'S...ANYWAY LEAVE BABYDADDY SORRY ASS ALONE HE IS TO MUCH NEGATIVE ENERGY RIGHT NOW...
babybubbles88 - Monday, 4 May
Thanks everyone....yeah I really hope so too!! My parents like him a lot and approve...and actually blessed us which is a shock cause my parents are hard core parents who are PICKY about guys being with me
baby[bump]mama - Monday, 4 May
i hope that everything works out.
babylicious2(blue) - Sunday, 3 May
Gurl one thing to think about is about how young u guys are... women are alot more mature then men so thyink about how far ur babydaddy is behing u..hes scared. And i know its hard to deal with cuz he wasnt scared to make that baby with you and i remember wen u was soo happy with him wen u was pregnant but its different wen u have the baby out here and he need to learn responiblities.. but all and all gurl that is no excuse and that rodney need to man the fuck up. im glad that ur so smart and on the right track and doing for ur baby since he so lost. Gurl i agree with you sooooo much get full custody!! run dooo it fast lolz and if he wanna fight right there tell the court hey i dont want him around my kid cuz he into drug and make his ass take a drug test so u can get full custody and dont let him run out on the responiblities make his ass pay child suporrt by court order!! eventually he might wanna come around and see his kid or do right or watever but i can not tell you how man friend i got that have guys just like that that do a 360 an u get whippflash from they mood swings so just mke sure u handle his ass now and do wat u gotta do so if things go on and off woth him u wont have to worry about it later. n dont let him trick u into not getting child suport cuz he should help to rather he want to or not cuz that is his baby too n shit aint cheap.. but im glad that u have found a happy place and even tho im not goingt hru the same thing u are i still understand wat u mean i seen it all b4 the god and the bad but im glad that u on the right track!!!!!!!! your a good mommie!
reila - Sunday, 3 May
I agree a baby don't need to be around a dad or any parent thats doing drugs and doing what God only knows. I hope things work out with this guy you're with now =]
| 03-5-2009 - Bad father...but another man comes along and takes over his Job |  My mood while writing this blog:Ok |
I guess things has gotten so bad that I don't know where to start. My daughter's father (Rodney), who was my fiance...we are not together anymore. I had to end it with him for good. I don't understand why he turned out the way he is now. Lily is now 5 months old and her father is not a good father to her. Ok....I will try to explain clearly why he hasn't been a good father. Rodney & my job has cut down bad, but I have two jobs and he only has one. I also go to school and plus taken care of a baby...and all he is doing is working part job--ONE JOB. So I am doing everything!!! Our pay check is cut down...but that's not much of a problem for me since I make more money then he does. So he only works 4 days a week and 3 days he doesn't work.
My daughter is with me...I work Monday-Sunday...in the morning and at night and I take two classes. The days that I do not work in the morning are Monday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday. But I work at night on those nights....so I always tell him that he needs to see his daughter and visit her. His answer? No.......so instead of spending time w/ his daughter, he spends with his friends...who aren't truly his friends. The crowds he hangs out are not good. He never used to smoke a lot of hookah, weed, nor drink, and now he does. It bugs me...and he keep telling me he loves me and that it's his get away. You know what I told him? F*CK YOUR GET AWAY, HOW THE HELL DO I FEEL? BUT IM NOT DOING DRUGS TO GET AWAY FROM MY JOB AND THE RESPONSIBILITIES! So that's when I ended it good with him.
While all of this was happening, my ex DeAndre has been talking to me and comfortating me. He is in the military and is stationed in Hawaii. He actually came home last week to visit me. While he was here, he spend most of his time with me and I enjoyed every minute of it. And I am so happy that he came home...he adores my daughter. He took care of her last Thursday for me while I went to work. He called my office and said "SHE TOOK A BIG DUMP ON ME!" LoL....I thought it was pretty funny. We took her to the pool on Thursday too after I was off work. She enjoed the pool and didn't even complain! Everyone was surprised a 5 month baby loves the pool. She is a good baby...and that is why I don't understand why her own father doesn't want anything to do with her.
But I am glad that someone else does...and him and I are together. We have been talking a lot about getting together and marriage while the drama has been going on with me and my ex...but I never had the courage to do it. So finally....I did. I have known him since I was 16 years old...and I will be 21 June 5, 2009....I'M FINALLY LEGAL FOR GOOD! :)
So I hope everything works out with me and my new guy....he really made me change my mind about guys...he proved to me he could do it and could take care of my daughter and me. And I am so glad to have him in my life. I will fight every battle to get rid of Rodney.....and I will fight full custody over her because I do not want an unstable father who will be doing drugs in front of her....I never though he would turn out the way he is....and I don't even feel bad for him.
He is the last person I am worried about...my only concern is my daughter & myself.
6 Comments on Bad father...but another man comes along and takes over his Job
momnthemaking05 - Wednesday, 23 Sep
omg girl i know how you feel. My daughters father and I are currenly not in a relationship. we've been together for almost 6 years. He is sorta the same way. we live together and he gets to see her everyday, BUT he is so far from involved in helping to care for her its rediculous. He is 21 but behaves like a 16 year old. I mean granted yes he works very hard and has little time for himself, but neither do i but i give as much of, if no all of my time to my baby girl. Instead of coming home to take over and help me with her he would rather run around aaaallll night getting high and what not and a number of other annoying childish things. It got so bothersome to the point were i would ride his ass every night about what he doesnt do and him being him cant handle the truth so at this moment we are not together. It just difficult because i know he cant do anything for me or our child right now and i need to let him go and separate myself from him, but unfortunately im a victim of stupid love and i find myself back and forth with him...sooo endless drama on this end. It funny how like you i have an ex that just recently popped up in my life again. i was very much in love with this guy when we were together but he was reall strung up in drugs, etc and a whle bunch of other things and now he is back talking about me being the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with and how he will take care of me and my daughter with no prob (he has a WONDERFUL paying job ;-) lol) and all that good stuff and that is exactly what i want BUT im not ready to jump from this relationship right into another plus i still have to get to know the person that he is today, ya know? sorry that was long, i had to share my story with ya girl cause i can totally relate!! i hope everything works out wth everything though. Hows ur little one by the way :-)
Nickybaby - Tuesday, 5 May
WOW GIRL ALOT OF DRAMA HAS BEEN HAPPENING I SEE. LONG TIME NO TALK I MISS YA IM SO GLAD BABY IS DOING WELL...THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY IS FUCK HIM..TRUST YOU ARE A STRONG ENOUGH WOMEN TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD ALONE...BUT JUST MAKE SURE THIS NEW GUY IS WAT YOU REALLY WANT BEFORE YOU JUMP TO FAST IN ANOTHER REALATIONHIP K...JUST REMEMBER HE IS AN EX HIMSELF...ASK YOURSELF Y YOU GUYS BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE BECAUSE IF HE WAS ALL THAT HE'S SAID TO BE THEN YALL WOULDNT HAVE BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE... AND YOUR BABYGIRL WOULD HAVE BEEN HIS INSTEAD OF RODNEY'S...ANYWAY LEAVE BABYDADDY SORRY ASS ALONE HE IS TO MUCH NEGATIVE ENERGY RIGHT NOW...
babybubbles88 - Monday, 4 May
Thanks everyone....yeah I really hope so too!! My parents like him a lot and approve...and actually blessed us which is a shock cause my parents are hard core parents who are PICKY about guys being with me
baby[bump]mama - Monday, 4 May
i hope that everything works out.
babylicious2(blue) - Sunday, 3 May
Gurl one thing to think about is about how young u guys are... women are alot more mature then men so thyink about how far ur babydaddy is behing u..hes scared. And i know its hard to deal with cuz he wasnt scared to make that baby with you and i remember wen u was soo happy with him wen u was pregnant but its different wen u have the baby out here and he need to learn responiblities.. but all and all gurl that is no excuse and that rodney need to man the fuck up. im glad that ur so smart and on the right track and doing for ur baby since he so lost. Gurl i agree with you sooooo much get full custody!! run dooo it fast lolz and if he wanna fight right there tell the court hey i dont want him around my kid cuz he into drug and make his ass take a drug test so u can get full custody and dont let him run out on the responiblities make his ass pay child suporrt by court order!! eventually he might wanna come around and see his kid or do right or watever but i can not tell you how man friend i got that have guys just like that that do a 360 an u get whippflash from they mood swings so just mke sure u handle his ass now and do wat u gotta do so if things go on and off woth him u wont have to worry about it later. n dont let him trick u into not getting child suport cuz he should help to rather he want to or not cuz that is his baby too n shit aint cheap.. but im glad that u have found a happy place and even tho im not goingt hru the same thing u are i still understand wat u mean i seen it all b4 the god and the bad but im glad that u on the right track!!!!!!!! your a good mommie!
reila - Sunday, 3 May
I agree a baby don't need to be around a dad or any parent thats doing drugs and doing what God only knows. I hope things work out with this guy you're with now =]
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