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7 Comments on Good Mom Bad Mom
greenmommy - Tuesday, 7 Apr
I think this is a great thing to think about and learn from parenting magazines, books and relatives and friends, and of course trial and error. I just have to take it one day at a time. Someday they will be all grown up I am preg. with this one but In 5 yrs myoldest will be graduating HS!!!! :-( Time just flies by!!!
HeavenSent2004 - Friday, 3 Apr
Being a mother is a little challenging sometimes, but just try to keep your cool and be patient. When I had my daughter almost five years ago my Mother gave me some motherly advice so I will pass that advice on to you. She told me to always love your children unconditionally, hug and kiss them everyday and tell them you love them everyday. I know you are going to be a great mother! and if you ever come across a situation that your not sure you can handle just take it to the Lord in prayer- He always has the right answer.
mrsbaby2 - Friday, 3 Apr
We all have these thoughts... as long as you do the best you can and love this baby unconditionally she'll be fine... try not to worry your self crazy.
redlady - Friday, 3 Apr
Everyday I think I may have done something to scare him for life, but then I think as long as I shower him with kisses and hugs and he is secure he will be okay, regardless if he just ate dogfood.
LvBNaMommy - Friday, 3 Apr
YES!!!!! I was just telling someone yesterday "man, I hope I don't screw up this kids life"!!!! I think about it all the time!!! But, then I just pray that god gives me the strength, courage, patience, and perserverance to be someone that is going to be a positive role model in his life!!! I think it's quite normal what we are feeling!
Maybe just by worrying about it, it will make us great mothers!!!!
cheryl01 - Friday, 3 Apr
its a worry that we will have for the rest of our lives for our children. everyy little thing we worry and some times when we fail at little things we amend and carry on. we can never be the perfect mom, we will all make mistakes, but knowing in your heart you gave the best you have is all that matters.
dinahmite425 - Thursday, 2 Apr
dont worry you will be great, im worried about my 11 year old daughter and the newborn baby they are both girls so im scared that one might be jealous or what if one is this and the other is that and they hate on each other, my 11 year old is thin always has been and she will always be thin she is like erika badu type of body slimmer than each of her friends she is also devleoping a chest fast and i have large boobs so i think she will be have large boobs what if my newborn is thicker im scared they will be jealous of each other, im also dark skin which i love!! my daughter is my complexion and i know she gets teased from time to time well my baby to be's dad is lighter and i really think my daughter will be really jealous of her little sister if her complexion is a little lighter!!! i have taught my daughter she is beautiful but you know how young kids are they are mean!!!!
so we all have things we are worried about for our children. actually i think im doing a good job.. my daughter loves me and tells me im the cool mom!! i like that her friends always want to be at our house which is great because i get to see what they are up to and into its always a scary thing but you will do great
| 02-4-2009 - Good Mom Bad Mom |  My mood while writing this blog:consumed |
Any other 1st time expectant mothers out there concerned about whether you will be effective in your child's life or fail at being a good mom all together?
The closer I get the more anxiety gets the best of me.
7 Comments on Good Mom Bad Mom
greenmommy - Tuesday, 7 Apr
I think this is a great thing to think about and learn from parenting magazines, books and relatives and friends, and of course trial and error. I just have to take it one day at a time. Someday they will be all grown up I am preg. with this one but In 5 yrs myoldest will be graduating HS!!!! :-( Time just flies by!!!
HeavenSent2004 - Friday, 3 Apr
Being a mother is a little challenging sometimes, but just try to keep your cool and be patient. When I had my daughter almost five years ago my Mother gave me some motherly advice so I will pass that advice on to you. She told me to always love your children unconditionally, hug and kiss them everyday and tell them you love them everyday. I know you are going to be a great mother! and if you ever come across a situation that your not sure you can handle just take it to the Lord in prayer- He always has the right answer.
mrsbaby2 - Friday, 3 Apr
We all have these thoughts... as long as you do the best you can and love this baby unconditionally she'll be fine... try not to worry your self crazy.
redlady - Friday, 3 Apr
Everyday I think I may have done something to scare him for life, but then I think as long as I shower him with kisses and hugs and he is secure he will be okay, regardless if he just ate dogfood.
LvBNaMommy - Friday, 3 Apr
YES!!!!! I was just telling someone yesterday "man, I hope I don't screw up this kids life"!!!! I think about it all the time!!! But, then I just pray that god gives me the strength, courage, patience, and perserverance to be someone that is going to be a positive role model in his life!!! I think it's quite normal what we are feeling!
Maybe just by worrying about it, it will make us great mothers!!!!
cheryl01 - Friday, 3 Apr
its a worry that we will have for the rest of our lives for our children. everyy little thing we worry and some times when we fail at little things we amend and carry on. we can never be the perfect mom, we will all make mistakes, but knowing in your heart you gave the best you have is all that matters.
dinahmite425 - Thursday, 2 Apr
dont worry you will be great, im worried about my 11 year old daughter and the newborn baby they are both girls so im scared that one might be jealous or what if one is this and the other is that and they hate on each other, my 11 year old is thin always has been and she will always be thin she is like erika badu type of body slimmer than each of her friends she is also devleoping a chest fast and i have large boobs so i think she will be have large boobs what if my newborn is thicker im scared they will be jealous of each other, im also dark skin which i love!! my daughter is my complexion and i know she gets teased from time to time well my baby to be's dad is lighter and i really think my daughter will be really jealous of her little sister if her complexion is a little lighter!!! i have taught my daughter she is beautiful but you know how young kids are they are mean!!!!
so we all have things we are worried about for our children. actually i think im doing a good job.. my daughter loves me and tells me im the cool mom!! i like that her friends always want to be at our house which is great because i get to see what they are up to and into its always a scary thing but you will do great
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