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So today would have been 20 weeks for me. I would be getting my U/S and seeing my little boy or girl growing inside. I would be halfway done. This sucks. Just needed to vent my sadness. It's so hard not to think about what could have been.
5 Comments on Milestones are Hard
firstmommy08 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Becky, we must have had the same due date because today I would have been 20 weeks as well. I've felt very emotional this week. I've been seeing a counselor for my grief because I thought I was losing my mind. I told her, "I don't understand why I'm hurting so much over some one I didn't even get to meet. I've never felt this much pain over a family member or losing a friend" But then she reassured me because it was that special bond of our baby growing inside of us, it was PART of us. I know what you're going through sweetie. We're all here to cry with you and imagine us giving you a great big group hug. ((Hugs)) Sam
tassy - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Just wanna give u a ((Hug)) hope this makes you feel better.. all we ladies who have mis carried, face these kinda milestones. The week counting never stops in our minds...
skittles0607 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Im sorry. I would be in week 22. I hope you will try again and fall pregnant soon. I will be thinking of you. Good Luck
res - Tuesday, 29 Jul
I'm really sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
julz - Tuesday, 29 Jul
I agree, today is a milestone for me too, and it sucks. Thinking of you today! ((hugs))
| 29-7-2008 - Milestones are Hard |  My mood while writing this blog:sad |
So today would have been 20 weeks for me. I would be getting my U/S and seeing my little boy or girl growing inside. I would be halfway done. This sucks. Just needed to vent my sadness. It's so hard not to think about what could have been.
5 Comments on Milestones are Hard
firstmommy08 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Becky, we must have had the same due date because today I would have been 20 weeks as well. I've felt very emotional this week. I've been seeing a counselor for my grief because I thought I was losing my mind. I told her, "I don't understand why I'm hurting so much over some one I didn't even get to meet. I've never felt this much pain over a family member or losing a friend" But then she reassured me because it was that special bond of our baby growing inside of us, it was PART of us. I know what you're going through sweetie. We're all here to cry with you and imagine us giving you a great big group hug. ((Hugs)) Sam
tassy - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Just wanna give u a ((Hug)) hope this makes you feel better.. all we ladies who have mis carried, face these kinda milestones. The week counting never stops in our minds...
skittles0607 - Wednesday, 30 Jul
Im sorry. I would be in week 22. I hope you will try again and fall pregnant soon. I will be thinking of you. Good Luck
res - Tuesday, 29 Jul
I'm really sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
julz - Tuesday, 29 Jul
I agree, today is a milestone for me too, and it sucks. Thinking of you today! ((hugs))
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