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17-12-2008 - I HATE MEN!

My mood while writing this blog: Pissed

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I swear how frigging hard is it for a man to take care of his own kid? I mean I understand that he works but he has been home for well over an hour and held her once for about 5 minutes before handing her off to me. I am a stay at home mom but that shouldn't mean that I do EVERYTHING for her. I dont even get a chance to take care of myself and all he does is sit on his computer or xbox and play games and he wont do anything unless asked. If the baby has a dirty diaper, he wont change her unless he is asked. And even then it like "well why can't you do it?" um... maybe because I've changed every other fucking diaper she has had today assshole. All I would like is maybe 30 minutes a day to myself. I cant even get a shower by myself anymore. If I ask him to watch her while I take a shower, half way through it, he'll come banging on the door telling me I need to hurry so he can do something else. Wat is so frigging important that you have to make your girlfriend who hass been doing nothing but tending after a baby and cleaning up after your ass all day take the baby. I dont quite understand. I am going crazy. Here, it is 5 pm and I still have not showered or gotten out of my pajamas because i'm too busy all day long with my daughter. The only thing he does for her is provide money for her. He thinks that he is more important that she is and that is BULL SHIT! She is an infant and infants need their parents and she should be first on his list like she is on mine. I dont sit there and play games while my daughter is screaming and crying. I mean come on. My routine is this.... wake up with the baby, feed change her & play with her... if im lucky she'll take a nap to where I can get maybe 30 minutes to an hour to myself to just relax, then she wakes up crying because she is hungry or wet and i repeat the same scenario over again until 10:30 or 11:00 at night & by that time i have to get in bed myself because she will be waking up at 7 in the morning. And people wonder why I am a complete bitch when they get home. I'm frusterated and need a break. But I dont get one and he is always complaining that he never does anything. Bitch, switch me lives for a day and see how fucking fast you want to go back to working. I'm sorry but I have no sympathy for men that think that it is only the woman's job to take care of the kids and clean house. This is 2008 almost 2009 not the 1800's get off your lazy asses and do something around the house.

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1 Comments on I HATE MEN!


bluejeans - Thursday, 18 Dec
OMG sounds exactly like my bf sometimes. i was having a shower not alone mind you my 2 year old was with me i come out and i can smell poop i say why didnt you change her? he goes you didnt tell me too ?WTF???? i went off who the hell has to come and tell me to change them feed them etc etc really he needs to get some sense!! Sometimes he gets home and is like so you didnt do anything today?? i wish .does he really think a 2 year old and a 3 month old run around taking care of themselves?? Not in this life buddy, I need to stop otherwise i could go on all day but im with ya if they had to do it for a day they would change there minds.