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20-8-2008 - not again OkMy mood while writing this blog:
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well ladies i just found out a month ago that i am going to have to have surgery for an hernia i have. I just had an hernia repaired 3 years ago when i gave birth to my son.I must admit i am very sad about this. I just knew that this would not happen again.I am very nervous about having this surgery considering that i have already had 4 c-sections and a hernia repaired before.then on top of that my husband's parents are going to have to watch all 6 of my kids. and the reason is because my folks don't really like my husband to much so they don't help me out as much. I have my appointment today to see when i will have my surgery they will also explain to me how they will repair it.I just don't need this stress right now.(feel me) my daughter is just 3 months old and i won't be able to care for her when i have my surgery this is a really bad feeling.And i won't be able to hold her either this is going to be so hard to deal with
Just need some support from u all.



16 Comments on not again


Sakiyna - Thursday, 21 Aug
can i ask u a question,i have a hernia and how bad could it get or is the surgery bad

buttons - Thursday, 21 Aug
Just read this after I sent you a message. I hope all goes well,sorry you dont get as much support from your family,Its hard when they dont like your partner so much. Will check in on your page to see how you are going,Im sure you can get through this.

misstiana - Wednesday, 20 Aug
us women are strong you'll get thro this just like everything else just pray about it girl ..we are stronger than we think.. ur in my prayers ..Take care

trine - Wednesday, 20 Aug
Try to be strong for your family. You will only create stress worrying about circumstances in which you can not change which will not be good for you at this time. It is unfortunate that your parents don't help much at the moment, but you can feel blessed that your husbands parents are. The best thing I believe you can do is keep yourself in a positive mind set and deal with the circumstances as best you can. I can not say that I know even slightly how you are feeling, but I pray that you keep your faith strong and that you have a quick recovery. My prayers are with you and your family. Take care.

Jelly27 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
Try to think on the positive. And pray pray pray for peace of mind as you go through this ordeal.

waiting08 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
Girl you know the saviour has already taken care of both you and your family! Everything is going to be just fine. I will keep you and your family in my prayers!!

PMOF2GIRLS - Wednesday, 20 Aug
No need to worry even though i know its hard not too you just have to leave all up to god he will take care of you and watch over your children and before you know you will be back and up running with the kids :-)

2bBlessedw2 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
I will be prayin that everything works out for you and your family.

phillygirl2 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
Everything will work out for the best, hopefully this will be the last time that they have to repair it. Be thankful that at least his family is willing to help you when you need it

momto4littleangelsn1ontheway - Wednesday, 20 Aug
so sorry you have to go through that again but you're in my thoughts and prayers and i hope you have a speedy recovery.,take care and god bless.

cantwaittoseemybaby - Wednesday, 20 Aug
The only thing you can do is pray about the situation. It could be a whole lot worse but it's not. Things will eventually get better with your family as well. I will be praying for you. God bless.

choppork5426 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
everything will be fine .im sure.and im also sure someone will be able to help you out with ur kids

chary83 - Wednesday, 20 Aug
I'm so sorry to hear that. It will be hard but you have to be a strong woman for you and your family. Everything will be just fine. Keep the faith!

gorgeous1o - Wednesday, 20 Aug
That is so unfortunate. I will pray that all is well after your surgery. I hope hubby steps up and help out a lil more when u come home from the hospital. Just pray & ask God to give u strength. U will see that all things will work themselves out in the end.

markiesmom - Wednesday, 20 Aug
I'm sorry you are going through this. You are in thoughts and prayers.

cymboliqua - Wednesday, 20 Aug
im sorry to hear hat but just think once its over its OVER!!! then you can go back to being the great mommy you are.
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