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04-1-2009 - Complications causing me to think twice about adoption

My mood while writing this blog: Scared

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Ok so the blood has not diapered yet and my Dr. says this may result in an early baby if I can even carry it that long! She has pretty much said I will be having a c-section and there is a good possiablity of hemridge which would result in a full historectomy wich means no more kids ever. She did offer an abortion because of the circumstances but I cant do it. So this leads me to make a chocie if I keep the baby at this point n my life and struggle but will always have that last one or do I give it up for adoption and know that there will never be anymore for me. What would you do? I am really thinking about keeping my baby because of the circustance just so confused.

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1 Comments on Complications causing me to think twice about adoption


metsmom - Monday, 5 Jan
Well honey you do have some serious things to think about as if you hadnt already. You seemed to have pretty much made up your mind about giving this baby up for adoption which is a beautiful gift. Like someone else said there are many women who would love to be mommies and cannot biologically so adoption is their next option. I think that whats going to make your biggest decision is whether or not you can live with the knowledge that you may not have anymore babies. I personally would not have an abortion but im not against it for the right reasons. If there is a physical harm to you by having this baby then i can understand. Think long and hard on what to do. Make the right choice for YOU and your baby. Have you thought about open adoptions where you could still be in your childs life in some way? I have read alot about that lateley just because i want to adopt myself at some point and i think an open adoption is the way im going to go. I want the child to know that while im his or her mommy there was someone who loved them enough to give them better. So again just think long and hard and im sure you will make the right choice! Good luck momma!