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02-12-2008 - CPS

My mood while writing this blog:
Whatever...

As many of you know, my ex called CPS on me because he didn't want me dating anyone. He said those exact words. I thought it was just many of his threats but he did call them. Well a CPS officer came out last week and checked my house, checked on Savannah, asked a bunch of questions and ordered a drug test, all part of routine. She said the case would be closed pending the results of the drug test. The lady checked my cabinets for food! That pissed me off the most, like I don't have food for my own daughter. I told her why my ex called and played 8 voicemails for her of him threatening me but of course she has to remain unbiased, understandably. Anyways, he won't get in trouble for filing a false claim and he can do it as many times as he wants. Wtf? As furious as I am that some stranger came into my home and judged my motherhood because he's mad I found someone else, the case is now closed. I do understand his hurt feelings and maybe pride but he took off on me for 4 months and didn't have anything to do with Savannah. Now all the sudden he wants back in? He didn't want me when he had me and never wanted Savannah. I'm shocked that I had a baby with someone who would use his own daughter as leverage to hurt me. I sure do pick 'em, eh? I know better now.

8 Comments on CPS

lilfishn - Thursday, 4 Dec
Ugh what an a$$hole! Sounds like only one good thing came from him, beautiful Savannah.

mom-of-4 - Wednesday, 3 Dec
Shelly hang in there....you have been doing a great job thus far and he's upset because he Suck at being a dad.....you keep doing what you are doing and your baby girl will be thankful to you....you have all the love and support from your IAP sisters here and we all love Savannah....

kettynyc - Wednesday, 3 Dec
Oh Shelley that sucks!!!!!! WTF is his problem? Such and A hole anyway sweetie, you'll be fine. It's all routine even though it sucks and she didn't question your motherhood she was just sent their by an idiot and did her job. Girl, keep me posted. I don't chat much on the forum anymore but I'm always checking in with you girls, I love all of you! Hugs to you from New York!

busybeemom - Wednesday, 3 Dec
Wow that stinks! What a jerk!!! I'm soooo sorry you have to go through that!

markiesmom - Wednesday, 3 Dec
I'm sorry you're going through this. Hope everything gets better from here on out.

crazyeights - Wednesday, 3 Dec
One thing I've learned the hard way is to document EVERYTHING. With the police especially but on paper too. Everything he says that is threatening, potentially threatening, harmful in anyway. Emotionally, psychologically, all of it. Protect yourself and Savannah. Get the police involved no matter how trivial it is. My brother and my best friends husband are both cops. They will tell you, call the police for EVERYTHING when there is a child involved. ALWAYS have a paper trail. Trust me in this. No matter how little it is. Make your local police know who you and Savannah are. He sounds like he may not be playing with a full deck. You need to do whatever it takes. Please. :)

lisalulu - Tuesday, 2 Dec
I am sorry you have to go through this capt...It is so unfair. He sounds so unstable. What a jerk.

mom2lcrb - Tuesday, 2 Dec
I hope you are making a police report on every one of those calls. They won't do anything to him but it is a record of them. Don't let him get the best of you. Everytime you get one of those calls from him call the police and make them come to your house and make a report. Don't let them say no. If that police office won't do it then ask from another until they come out. I hate mean like this. I have been married for 15 years and 2 years ago my x boyfriend from high school decided that he wanted back in my life and started crap like calling CPS on me. I reported him everytime he was in my front yard. They didn't do anything to him but they have a record of it. So make sure you do that...Take care and if I was living close to you I would take him out behind a barn and give him a good a$$ kickin....... : )

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