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27-10-2008 - Men are dimwits sometimes

My mood while writing this blog: annoyed

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Men are dummies!! Well at least my boyfriend can be at times!! I know I have been acting needy, especially the last few months...but why shouldn't I?! I'm carrying OUR baby and I feel as if I am the only one doing anything sometimes. Not only that, but I get bored and lonely too. Lots of my friends have better things to do then hang out with a prego, but since he isn't pregnant it hasn't really affected his friends feelings about him so he gets to go out with them whenever he wants. For instance, after work pretty well everyday he stops off at his friends house or his parents house before he comes home. He already works an hours drive away, so by the time he is home it's 7:30 at night. If he left right from work he would be home by 4:30. I feel as if I'm always waiting around for him, it drives me nuts. It's especially annoying when doesn't even let me know when he will be home, I end up worrying that he's been in an accident or something. And i don't want to be the nag who keeps calling him to ask where he is. While I don't mind that he spends time with his family and friends, I just don't think he needs to do it every single night because I need some of his time too. I would never stop him from seeing his parents or friends, but I just think he needs to understand where his priorities lie now, he is going to be a dad in less than a month and he can't be galavanting around while I'm at home with the baby. I'm not going to be the babysitter while he continues his 'pre-baby life'!! And also, I hate having to arrange dinner around HIS schedule! I get hungry dammit lol!! Then after dinner he usually spends the rest of the night preparing for tomorrow's lesson (he is a teacher)...so obviously I don't really get to spend quality time with him. Like tonight he stopped off at his dads for the milionth time this week and they were out all day yesterday and lastnight at a hockey game (which I thought was great quality time for them to spend together) but I sort of expected that tonight he would come home to me not his dad. And he is always late!! When I finally decide to call and ask when he will be home he always says '20mins'.... then it ends up being an hour later!! I sort of feel like he is trying to get away from me. Like I'm just the boring old nag of a wife! The excuses he comes up with for why he needs to go to his parents house or friends house are absolutely ridiculous sometimes! And he is not cheating or anything, I know that 100%.... I'm not even worried about him doing that. He is a wonderful man, but he is just a dummy sometimes lol and I needed to vent!

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1 Comments on Men are dimwits sometimes


little mummy - Tuesday, 28 Oct
My man woz totally the same, i got fed up wiv him constantly disappearin off wiv friends whilst i sat home til all hours alone waitin for him to show up. So know wot i did? I gave him a taste of his own medicine!!! I went to visit friends told him i woz havin a nite to myself an wud c him l8r. 50 times at least that nite i received fone calls and txt msg's. I kept fobbin him off the way he wud do to me, "wont be long babe, leavin soon". Eventually i left at around midnite, wen i woz pretty tired, on walkin in he woz all like, where u bin? i bin callin, i bin worried, ur pregnant!!! I just sed it's not nice is it sittin in alone wonderin an waitin!!! Since that day he has made a valiant effort. If he does go out wiv his buddies he tells me so i can make plans for girlfriends to come round or he takes me along wiv him, and he's always home at a reasonable time. I think it just slightly opened his eyes to wot he woz puttin me thru. It's lonely at the best of times but wen ur pregnant u can feel so isolated. I hope things turn around for u, if not perhaps just try teachin him a lesson. xx