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13-5-2009 - I need your advice

My mood while writing this blog: Confused & Frustrated

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on monday i went to the doctor and my fiance went with out me asking which surprised the hell out of me so we get there and were waiting and waiting well he cracking jokes bout everything that trough the damn door which is killing me because I am dieing with laugh and my stomach started killing me. Anyways i get in the back n my mid wife walks in and you could not believe what comes out of his mouth ( oh you pregnant too) I almost flapped but that not the problem that is what started the problem cause after that happened didnt want anything more then to get me done and out of there so she measured me and let me go she didnt even listen to baby ginasys heart beat which was strange but after I left I remebered that today she was suppose to tell me the exact date of my induction so I called back and the nurse answered and put me on hold then she gets on the phone with a attitude to in tells me that I need talk to her when i am at my appointment not during someone elses appointment time which really pissed me off and when I asked about the date and she told me 37 weeks and to get ready I wanted to askk her what she meant by that but she hung up so i am left on my own and i have kids so I know pregnancy labor aint shit to play with especially when it is not time for it so this is where I need your help what should I take to help my body get ready for labor to start soften my cervix and things like that and when should I start them and also what type of vitimans will help with fetal growth I am going crazy thinking about this because I know primrose oil does wonders but thats a 5x a day process and I dont want to start to early and end up going into labor to earlier then I am suppose and then with me have a nerve problem and my back and my left leg and its starting to get worse I have so much pain and my pelvic area I cant even move side to side in bed much less get out of it and my left leg goes out on me and I know its from the pressure and weight from the baby I am going crazy so I called my midwife and asked the nurse was there anything I can take stronger then tyenol and she was like she would schedule me with the doctor tomorrow so im going to explain how I feel to him because she has never act this way towards me so I know it is because of what ramar said which should not reflect me but i will update you tomorrow but please send all advice it is dearly needed

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3 Comments on I need your advice


Bethies2ndBaby - Thursday, 14 May
Oh Ramar.. My husband is a goof too and sometimes forgets to be considerate so I understand! But the nurse should not hold that against you.
I think that pregnant women should NEVER be afraid to call the doctor- so forget their attitude and just call again!! I am sure you know that nothing that we could tell you on here would even come close to medical advice.
I know I am not much help, but I just had to say "Oh Ramar" So silly.. LOL

tifftiff - Wednesday, 13 May
I thought that as soon that you find out you are pregnant, the doctor prescribe you pre-natal vitamins to take. Are you taking any vitamins right now???

I don't know about primrose oil because I didn't take anything except for the vitamins, and whenever I got sick, I'll take Tylenol. I always call my doctor before taking any medicine though.
Somehow I don't like the idea of speeding up to get the baby out though. I thought when the timing is right, the baby will comes, unless your water break unexpectedly though.
Sorry that I couldn't help you or give you any advice, hihihi :-D . I hope you and your baby are healthy.

Diegirl - Wednesday, 13 May
My girl friend used primrose evening oil....orally and vaginally. She also drank red raspberry leaf tea to help the uterus prepare.