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cassiebear711
Age: 21
Country: USA
Province/region: MI
City: Plainwell
Partner: Henry
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03-5-2010 - Money money money a bit upsetMy mood while writing this blog:
a bit upset



Soo today my hubby was supposed to have some sugery and get his wisdom teeth out. They are hurting him and need to come out. Anyways with the military he has united concordia, which pays like 50%. The total amount was like 1500$ and we had to pay 700$ something. I can't afford that! So now i am like so depressed b/c i can't even afford to get him the surgery he needs. I'm already paying for everything since he doesn't have a job. He just got his license so he's trying but there are NO jobs around here. Everyone says "try to get him on base", but thats not as easy as it sounds. I'm now paying an extra 200$ a month for his fines from driving w/o a license in Michigan and i have literally NO extra money at all anymore. We were supposed to be saving for the baby and now i can't. I have NOTHING in savings so if something goes wrong or we don't have the money...i just don't know how he expects me to not worry about paying for this baby when we have no money. I'm not even paying for all the things shes going to need. I don't know where that money will come from. I know i don't have it. We were supposed to go home to MI after she was born to visit family n friends and have my babyshower but now i can't save any money to drive up there. He says we'll still go cuz his mom will pay but how is she gunna pay when she's broke too!!! I don't know. I feel so bad i can't afford the necessities. I can't get food stamps because i make too much but they don't take into account all the things i pay for. I can't get on any state help or anything, besides that would look bad since i work for the govt. I don't know. I guess i'm just scared to have her now. I don't know how i'm going to afford diapers or bottles or food or ANYTHING!!! I hate this. I'm stressing soo much. I just want to cry.


1 Comments on Money money money


Claire1987 - Monday, 3 May
I kinda know how you feel.. I'm also the stressed one in our relationship about the money issue.. Just because you work for the gov doesn't mean it would look bad.. If you need that extra help then you should try and get it. You'll never know unless you try it. I really hope that everything works out for you. Good luck!!
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