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26-5-2009 - How??

My mood while writing this blog: I don\'t even know

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It's official I am the world's biggest idiot. I've made friends with a really nice guy that has a lot of power in the Navy and imagine my surpise to find out that the man I have been with for 8 months and that I'm pregnant by is married and has kids?! Maybe they're still together maybe they aren't but I have asked countless times if he's ever been married or if he has other kids and he always said no no no. Guess the joke is on me. I feel so stupid. 8 months. How could I not know? How could she not know? How do you lie to someone and talk marriage to someone for 8 months when you already have a family? Lord please keep that man away from me or I might kill him. I guess the good news is since he was trying to worm out of adding the baby I caught him off guard by saying ummm I have paternity acknowledgement papers you can sign right here. He has agreed that when I meet him he will sign whatever I want. I guess I'd do the same if I didnt want my wife and the Navy to find out that I've carried on an 8 month affair and brought a child into the world out of it. The stupid thing is he STILL DENIES IT GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

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8 Comments on How??


iey - Thursday, 28 May
Wow...soap operas have nothing on that creep!! Is your Navy friend the one that told you?? If not...I'd mention it to him as I don't think they'd be happy about all of this! I feel bad for you, for his wife, for all the kids...and he still denies it?! You are lucky you got out when you did!!
Take care! Hugs!!

preggomama - Wednesday, 27 May
omg, that it a lifetime movie plot line. that is rediculous. I say you find out who his wife is and it wouldnt be hard and get in contact with her, she deserves to know...what an asshold i cannot believe it. sure explains some of his behavior though, what an ass....

Lila2cute:-) - Wednesday, 27 May
What do these papers do... do they allow him to walk away from his responsibilities as the father? I don't understand why you are having him sign anything other than child support papers?

jaja8431 - Tuesday, 26 May
Im sorry to hear that..But at least you found out now and all of your attention can go to your baby, you dont need a guy like that in your life..And dont stress it just think about your baby and how if you get upset so will he.

saawmummy (dueoct8) - Tuesday, 26 May
OH MY GOD!!! Thank god you found out now! What a complete dog! Don't feel stupid, when you have a relationship with someone you trust them to be honest with you. I hope that you are OK. Take care of yourself

mommylove09 - Tuesday, 26 May
Wow, I am speechless..

ParkerNHarpersMom - Tuesday, 26 May
OMG! that is insane!!!!!
I would be livid, as should you be! You and his other family don't deserve this crap from him. I feel really bad for you, but imagine how his wife would/will feel if and when she finds out.

2ndlibrababy - Tuesday, 26 May
what a piece of crap!!!! your not the idiot, hes just a really good liar! I'm sure your child is going to be beautiful and grow up to do great things, so thank God for this baby and showing you the light.