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03-7-2008 - A Message to My Friends

My mood while writing this blog: Okay-believe it or not

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Well the waiting is finally over. I just received word from my doctor that I have, in fact, miscarried. I knew this, but I swear I was hanging on by a thread that maybe I would just bleed my way through this pregnancy. I heard SO many stories of women going through this that I really did have hope. But you know, you've got to just keep faith that the man upstairs knows what he's doing. And I do have faith. In the meantime, if I were going to be one of those women who has her "period" during pregnancy, boy would you all be getting an earful (or monitor full) each and every one of the remaining 280 days *a collective sigh of relief--I heard you guys*

Right now, I'm okay. And as I said before, I really think a lot of it has to do with you all. You have been so wonderful to me. Over the past couple of days, I've had some 50 or more messages of concern from you. And for that, I am very grateful.

So tomorrow morning, I'm going to have a big old, cup of strong coffee, kick back and enjoy the day with my daughter. As if I didn't already know this, these past few days have just reconfirmed just how blessed I am to have her. I look in her big, brown eyes and know she truly is a gift from God. (okay, now I'm crying)

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11 Comments on A Message to My Friends


tabitha - Saturday, 5 Jul
aww hunny im so sorry for your loss and I really hope you get there soon. (((hugs))) from me and the girls...

debra haynes - Friday, 4 Jul
you're so sweet and again i'm so sorry for your loss and i if you need to talk remember i 'm here for you,take care and i wish you all the best.

janekow - Thursday, 3 Jul
I'm so sorry christine for your loss. I admire your positive attitude during this time. I hope you heal quickly in all aspects, emotionally, physcially, spiritually-all of the above! You are truly blessed to have children and I'm so happy to hear that they serve as a positive reminder for you. I will be thinking of you!

canadianroots - Thursday, 3 Jul
Hope you are feeling ok today, add some shopping to that drinking strong coffee bit, it aways helps me.

amanda43 - Thursday, 3 Jul
I am sorry to hear about your loss, its a difficult time. I also have had a miscarriage. I also got pregnant less than 2 weeks later so don't get yourself too down. Good luck and god bless you and your family.

Hopeful22 - Thursday, 3 Jul
I'm so sorry to hear that, just remember you are not alone you have us your cyber family and we are all hear for you if you need to vent, we are your shoulder to cry on and we will cry with you.
This site is how I got thru my m/c, you are in my prayers if you need to talk just log on I'm available.

mamacourser - Thursday, 3 Jul
I am so sorry. I remember going through the whole process just a couple of months ago. I'm glad that you are doing ok. If you need anything, please don't hesistate to write!

minkymoo78 - Thursday, 3 Jul
Yeah I'm crying too now, sat at work! I'm so sorry for you but you seem to be coping really well and yes you are blessed to have a beautiful little daughter already. Are you going to carry on TTC? I hope so, I'm right here with you. I know you must be really fed up right now but it will happen, as it will for all the rest of us. It is so unfair what you've just gone through and i've just shed a tear for you! Let's hope soon we are cying tears of joy. If you need to talk email me, my email address is Helen.Hudson@nelctp.nhs.uk I'm here all day! Take care xxx

Boojamsbaby - Thursday, 3 Jul
Hey chika. Throw some whiskey in that large cup of coffee just cos you can! Then, for lunch, take that adorable daughter of yours out for sushi or something equally as forbidden, rent a DVD pop some popcorn and spend the day basking in the love of your beautiful family. Then, you do what every strong woman on this site does. You brush yourself, you get back to your planning and wait for the next time you get that BFP and you recieve another 50 messages from those of us on this site who have been with you from the beginning, will be with you too the end, and can truly say "I know how you feel",,,

Take care!

preggiebelly - Thursday, 3 Jul
I am so so so so sorry. More sorry than I could ever express to you with any words on a website. I wish I could hug you for hours and tell you that everything is going to be okay.
Please keep optimistic.... keep trying.... don't give up. Your little girl will have a brother or sister for next Christmas.... and he or she will be absolutely perfect and worth every bit of all this heartache.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.... please keep in touch & know that there are dozens of women all over this world thinking of you. ~ Jamie

Moni7 - Thursday, 3 Jul
I am so sorry to hear about your m/c. I will keep you in my prayers.